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In this new particular case I've already set the "relationship frame" I guess you could say, with this current hb8 and I know she's looking for a relationship too. This girl is not stuck up she's actually a lot different from most girls and I'm liking her a lot. We have not had sex yet just some fooling around but I know she will want to have sex after this date which is Saturday in two days. Ijust don't want this one to fizzle out.. Can you guys give me any tips / routines / ways to make her laugh / and just ideas that'll make her want to continue seeing me? I don't want to become that guy that can't keep a convo going at dinner and make it awkward again.
As has already been implied and said, she should be talkative (about annoying things like her cat), while you listen, and so into you that she can't wait to see you and suck you off. A major concern is that you have spent more than 2 days with her and have not had sex. Conventional explanation: she does not see you sexually, and may be seeing you as her beta orbiter/punk who pays for dinners. You are dreading the restaurant (again) because your wallet is getting smaller.What should have happened at these "dinner dates" is this and your hand between her legs:
and immediately this if not shortly thereafter:
Conventional explanation for getting out of friend zone: go to the boring restaurant setting (I prefer a romantic setting like a botanical garden or cool planetarium), pretend to talk for 5 minutes, and grab her for a kiss, "I can't help myself around you," and take her in the lavatory. If this does not seem plausible in your mind, don't even bother.
Unconventional explanation: this is 2016. Women are branch swingers, swinging from one larger wallet to another. There is no such thing as a woman, who wants a "relationship." Women are resource extractors. Women will not love men the way men want to be loved. Put her to work by making her justify herself and prove that she is ready to take care of you emotionally by having sex with you. Maslow https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27 ... y_of_needs
As some of the fellas will say, you are not at the point of girlfriend management. Ask yourself if this is the quality of attention you want or if your desires would be better served elsewhere.
