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| Author: | DMVA100 [ Fri Jan 08, 2016 6:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Talking about hookups and gfs - Faux Pas? |
Last couple dates I've been on when shifting topic of conversation to sex, I ask them about any of their crazy hookup stories. Most of the time it doesn't seem to be a big deal. However I find that if I share a story about mine without being asked they lose interest and don't want to be around me. I know you are never supposed to mention anything about sex referring to you and your date, but where does the whole calibration factor come into play here? Only thing I can think of is that I didn't screen correctly and they were thinking of me for a potential bf but then find out I obviously wouldn't be faithful etc. Either that, or it shows that I am not discreet. So ultimately, do you ever share stories like that without being asked to try and build a common connection and understanding of the hookup culture? Or do you just use their experiences to qualify them? Is it socially wrong to share your stories in a way like this that doesn't seem like bragging? Almost seems on par with the 'how many girls have you been with' shit test where the less you reveal the better. |
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| Author: | DMVA100 [ Sat Jan 09, 2016 12:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking about hookups and gfs - Faux Pas? |
Anyone? |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sat Jan 09, 2016 5:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Talking about hookups and gfs - Faux Pas? |
Speaking for myself personally I don't talk about this shit with girls much if at all. In my experience they don't want to hear it. When I was younger I used to TRY to talk about this topic and it seemed like they just thought i was trying to impress them and it did not work at all. |
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