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| Author: | Jeffrey12 [ Wed Nov 25, 2015 12:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Shortterm game=check, midterm game=fail |
Hi guys, I have no issue building up sexual attraction in the short term and making a female attracted and interested in me but where my real issue is, is to maintain this after a couple of weeks. I've been to this forum numerous times in the past with the same issue! its not to fuck the bird (which doesn't occur all the time) but its to keep my frame and to maintain her interest. Any tips guys? |
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| Author: | Style981 [ Thu Nov 26, 2015 12:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Shortterm game=check, midterm game=fail |
Since no one has replied so here I am. I read somewhere about this concept that once you start gaming or interacting a girl, a timer starts and there is a very short window which becomes smaller and smaller as time passes by. So if you don't escalate or move things forward, that window will close pretty soon and the girl will eventually lose interest in you. This concept applies for both short term (for a particular approach) and long term (in terms of relationships). The same thing happens to nice guys who end up in friend zone.i.e they don't escalate soon. Now if you've got her interested that just prolongs the window a bit. Still have to move things forward. |
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| Author: | danirago [ Mon Nov 30, 2015 10:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Shortterm game=check, midterm game=fail |
Dude this happens to me 90% of the time. The 10% I've managed to keep interested in a longer-ish time period has been thanks to social proof and 2 steps back 1 step forward neg/compliment. I've found that giving less compliments helps to enlarge the interest window as it keeps the girl more hooked and thrilled. Love from Tenerife, -Dani. |
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