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| Author: | coldfire3k3 [ Thu Nov 05, 2015 6:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Day game conversation tips |
I think my day game conversation is a sticking point. I don't run out of things to say anymore since I've done 100s of cold approaches now so random things just seem to pop into my head. However, I seem to follow a pattern that maybe isn't giving me the optimum results. My conversations normally go as follows. I've done it so many times it's just automatic: - Open: "Hey, you're cute, who are you? My name is ...." or "Hey, you're cute, I like your style [mention something specific about their clothing/piercings/tattoos/accessories etc]." - Ask what they are up to right now and try to gauge whether to aim for a insta date or number close. Follow up on what they are doing eg. if they are shopping ask who they are shopping for or what they are looking to buy. - When conversation runs dry I try to guess what they do for a living based on how they look/if they have an accent I try to guess their nationality. I also try to guess aspects of their personality based on how they come across i.e. you seem like a responsible girl but also a bit edgy/a rebel. - Try to qualify: "you seem like the adventurous type.", "can you cook?", "what do you do for fun" - Go for an insta date: "I'm going to costa for a coffee, join me/keep me company" - If an insta date is off the cards I'd say "I'd love to have coffee with you some time", I'll try and set up a specific time and date on the spot and show them my phone for them to type their number in. Do you guys have any tips on how to improve? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Thu Nov 05, 2015 6:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Day game conversation tips |
Not saying it works or doesn't, but it really helped for me, to be normal and blank your mind entirely. I find it easier to get into an organic authentic conversation that way |
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| Author: | coldfire3k3 [ Thu Nov 05, 2015 6:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Day game conversation tips |
Quote: Not saying it works or doesn't, but it really helped for me, to be normal and blank your mind entirely. I find it easier to get into an organic authentic conversation that way
Yeah, I try to do this as it's more fun for me instead of repeating the same stuff to every girl. However, after 5 to 10 minutes of conversation I start thinking ok I need to try to move them for an insta date or I need qualify them so that they don't flake on me so the conversations becomes more scripted and a bit boring.
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