I've both read and experienced different approaches for escalation once back at your place. The only times I have had LMR is when I did things slow with comfort i.e. back rub to kino then kiss etc and this was after an hour of prior comfort. The only times I didn't get lmr was when I literally went stright for it from behind with neck kissing, groping anD finger banging and most kof those chicks I had built on 10 mins comfort with sooo wtf. Depends on the chick too, but have you all noticed that if you try to be slow and comforting she'll think you're beta? I always fail when I try to be passionate and try not to freak her out.