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Author:  whitenigga [ Sat Jun 20, 2015 6:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Flakes

I keep getting flaked and excuses whenever i try to make a date/hangout with a girl! This has happened with many different girls. This defiantly fucks my confidence ups. I have no idea what im doing wrong. But usually it goes down like this.

Me: "Next monday me and you. clock 13.13. Wear something nice"
Her: "i can't, what about tuesday"
Me: "i can't tuesday, what about xx day" (i legit can't)
Her: "we will find a time later"

and then we NEVER find the time and i never get anything schulded. Sometimes they even make the date and call me 1 day in advance to tell me that they can't.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 2:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Flakes

That's not a flake, man.

A flake is when you've got set plans and she bails on them at the last minute.

What you're describing is poor planning and a lack of diligence! The girl in your example even gave you an alternate time proposal (which is a good sign).

I like to ask girls what their schedule is like instead of clobbering them over the head with a date and time and insisting they "be there"... They'll generally provide a couple of options.

Switch things up if it ain't working, man.

Author:  WillEdward [ Sun Jun 21, 2015 3:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Flakes

I agree with CharlesFinley. Girls have lives and have their own plans. Find out their schedule and set up time to see each other when you both are free.

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