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Author:  magipimp [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 12:04 am ]
Post subject:  I get bored talking to women.
So, I'll be in a conversation talking about superficial shit that I don't care about and my emotional state gets bored and I start feeling like an actor.

The things that interest me genuinely are not the topics suggested in seduction. The other girl. The airhead beliefs she has about fashion, music, current events, celebrities, relationships, dating, or any of that superficial crap. Conversations that interest me are always deep and philosophical. I like talking about shit like will durant's views on history and the qualities that separate guys like a Charles Darwin from joe schmoes. Economics, world events, and how quantum physics is basically knowledge that Magi have been talking about for centuries.

This shit is boring to most women. :lol:

I don't have a problem changing my identity. I call it evolution. You can call it fake if you want and that would be your opinion. Does anyone know of a way to make myself enjoy talking about mindless stuff like this so that I am congruent inside and out when hitting clubs and the streets?
Author:  Liberty Bill [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 5:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I get bored talking to women.
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So, I'll be in a conversation talking about superficial shit that I don't care about and my emotional state gets bored and I start feeling like an actor.

The things that interest me genuinely are not the topics suggested in seduction. The other girl. The airhead beliefs she has about fashion, music, current events, celebrities, relationships, dating, or any of that superficial crap. Conversations that interest me are always deep and philosophical. I like talking about shit like will durant's views on history and the qualities that separate guys like a Charles Darwin from joe schmoes. Economics, world events, and how quantum physics is basically knowledge that Magi have been talking about for centuries.

This shit is boring to most women. :lol:

I don't have a problem changing my identity. I call it evolution. You can call it fake if you want and that would be your opinion. Does anyone know of a way to make myself enjoy talking about mindless stuff like this so that I am congruent inside and out when hitting clubs and the streets?
I have the same issue, but my plan is to qualify girls quickly and churn through as many as possible to find the ones that are intellectually curious. I'm new at this so it's all theory, but surely if the sample size is large enough we can find some philosophical girls, right?
Author:  DrexelScott [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 5:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I get bored talking to women.
This is a huge one for me as well. They literally never say anything that interests me and I feel like I'm faking nearly 100 percent of the attention I place on her stories / complaining / meaningless opinions about meaningless things. The best way I've found to deal with it is to just constantly make jokes that I think are funny, to keep myself amused, because otherwise I would fall asleep.
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 6:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I get bored talking to women.
Where are you guys trying to meet women? It's not likely that you're going to find a scholar at the club or a party girl in a freakum dress at the library on Friday night. Like minds tend to congregate in the same place or they are in the same social circles. Either find where the type of women you like hang out at or increase your social circle.
Author:  magipimp [ Fri Jun 12, 2015 9:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I get bored talking to women.
Thanks for the responses guys.

Like Jack says there are women who enjoy conversations like that. You can find them in places, and going through social circles.

Here is the thing. I'm talking about picking up women in general. Like clubs on the streets and day to day life. The conversational topics are the ones they enjoy in general. Why would I sleep with and toss aside a quality woman that I want to keep around for extended periods of time?

No, these air heads (who are the majority of women, bless them...) are the ones that are meant to be fucked and kicked to the side.

I couldn't do that to a quality girl because that would be stupid since they're uncommon. I want to enjoy talking bullshit so I can gain access to these fun-time girls.

Anyway, I've done some research on the subject while waiting for an answer and I found a solution. When this starts happening to me I can use a habit interrupt then replace the emotions with positive ones.

I'll use a hand jesture that'll appear as a natural conversation hand movement, and then I'll remind myself that I love pussy, think back quickly to some sexual experience where I was excited, bringing up that emotional state, while continuing my conversation. So sexual excitement will get tied to the topics which are currently boring to me.
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