Usually when you can't get a kiss it's because of not escalating. Conversation with emotional stimulation, eye contact, and kino are usually the basics to that recipe.

Step 1: study on ways to physically escalate

Step 2: go to a night club

Step 3: escalate on every girl you like

Step 4: end the madness and have dates that lead to sex

You can solve this sticking point within one weekend

I make good eye contact with the girls.

Where can I learn about emotional stimulation and kino?

Thanks for this Derron. Was looking just for something like that. Totally giving it a go next time.

On the date, whether you're on a walk or sitting next to her at some café or restaurant. Always position yourself so that you are next to her so that can touch and escalate. Never sit across from her the entire time. At first, it might be wise to sit across from her until you break the ice and make her feel comfortable in your company As Style mentioned.. at some point get up to use the toilet, and when you come back sit down next to her. Don't ask, just do it and say "I think it looks more comfortable over here", maintain good eye contact with a slight, sly grin... as you are sitting down next to her, lightly stroke her lower back for just a second until you are fully seated. Then withdraw your hand and wait a minute or two before your next touch.

To go for the kiss, you need to lead the conversation to the topic of relationships, then mention one girlfriend who was a terrible kisser. And she was also terrible in bed. say "you can tell a lot about how making love with someone will be based on how they kiss. If a person is a bad kisser, chances are they will be a bad lover. For me, I hate it when people do the tongue tornado... sucking winds and precipitation... slobber all over my face... No, me... I like to take my time with a kiss.. softly rub my lips against hers... massage her tongue gently, yet passionately... slowly at first, and never too fast."

What you're doing here is getting her imagination going. By talking about how you like to kiss, she is imagining it in her mind, and if she's attracted to you--she's imagining what it's like to kiss you.

Then you ask her, "What kind of kisser are you?"

Or, "Do you think you're a good kisser?"

Eye contact. Sly grin. Look at her lips, then back to her eyes. Do all this while you're already moving in slowly for the kiss. Do not break eye contact until she meets you for the kiss. Then kiss her as described above.

Length of first kiss: If you're in a setting where sex is possible, escalate gradually until you get it done.
If sex is not possible, such as a public place, keep the first kiss at about 10 seconds.

Break off, pull back as slowly as you leaned in. Grin. Probably, she will say something like "So, how was that?" At which point you can either A) neg her, "Eh... not bad... for a blonde(or nationality, or punk girl, or whatever) Or go for a second kiss by saying with a confused expression on your face, "You know.. I can't remember... I think I need to refresh my memory" Then go for a quick 3 second kiss, afterwards saying "Aaah.. yeah now I remember! Pretty damn good!" Big shit eating grin.

If she doesn't say anything after the kiss, simply say "You pass" and give her a thumbs up.

Good hunting.

-Derron Fox

On the date, whether you're on a walk or sitting next to her at some café or restaurant. Always position yourself so that you are next to her so that can touch and escalate. Never sit across from her the entire time. At first, it might be wise to sit across from her until you break the ice and make her feel comfortable in your company As Style mentioned.. at some point get up to use the toilet, and when you come back sit down next to her. Don't ask, just do it and say "I think it looks more comfortable over here", maintain good eye contact with a slight, sly grin... as you are sitting down next to her, lightly stroke her lower back for just a second until you are fully seated. Then withdraw your hand and wait a minute or two before your next touch.

To go for the kiss, you need to lead the conversation to the topic of relationships, then mention one girlfriend who was a terrible kisser. And she was also terrible in bed. say "you can tell a lot about how making love with someone will be based on how they kiss. If a person is a bad kisser, chances are they will be a bad lover. For me, I hate it when people do the tongue tornado... sucking winds and precipitation... slobber all over my face... No, me... I like to take my time with a kiss.. softly rub my lips against hers... massage her tongue gently, yet passionately... slowly at first, and never too fast."

What you're doing here is getting her imagination going. By talking about how you like to kiss, she is imagining it in her mind, and if she's attracted to you--she's imagining what it's like to kiss you.

Then you ask her, "What kind of kisser are you?"

Or, "Do you think you're a good kisser?"

Eye contact. Sly grin. Look at her lips, then back to her eyes. Do all this while you're already moving in slowly for the kiss. Do not break eye contact until she meets you for the kiss. Then kiss her as described above.

Length of first kiss: If you're in a setting where sex is possible, escalate gradually until you get it done.
If sex is not possible, such as a public place, keep the first kiss at about 10 seconds.

Break off, pull back as slowly as you leaned in. Grin. Probably, she will say something like "So, how was that?" At which point you can either A) neg her, "Eh... not bad... for a blonde(or nationality, or punk girl, or whatever) Or go for a second kiss by saying with a confused expression on your face, "You know.. I can't remember... I think I need to refresh my memory" Then go for a quick 3 second kiss, afterwards saying "Aaah.. yeah now I remember! Pretty damn good!" Big shit eating grin.

If she doesn't say anything after the kiss, simply say "You pass" and give her a thumbs up.

Good hunting.

-Derron Fox

I have been able to sustain their interest, have interesting conversations and even talk about relationships