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| Author: | ASmooth90 [ Thu Apr 02, 2015 3:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Transitioning from witty banter to isolating and escalating |
Recently I've noticed a re-occurring situation in my sets. The interaction will reach a point where she would rather be with me than for me to leave, and she's comfortable enough to spar with me a bit. These could be characterized as shit tests (congruence tests), or something else. For example: Me: you took forever in the bathroom, did you fall in? Her: You're not funny....I can see your nipples poking out of your shirt Me: You're only looking because you think I'm sexy A lot of these conversations are mindless half insults that don't follow any real logical pattern, it's more like mutual teasing. I think that it establishes some sexual tension, because there have definitely been points in these interactions where I just wanted to grab the girl and do things to her. If you believe in the law of emotional transference, it's likely that she was feeling the sexual tension as well. How would you isolate and escalate in a situation like this, assuming that the conversation is occurring in a public place? |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Thu Apr 02, 2015 6:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Transitioning from witty banter to isolating and escalat |
You can use any reason to isolate to somewhere in the venue or place like, "Hey, I want to show you something cool..." and lead her off there. You can, and should, escalate anywhere even if public. Start early and start small. Some girls may even kiss in the middle day of the day on a busy street, you just have to feel her out (metaphorically and literally). In terms to her response about your nipples poking out, she is breaking rapport with you, so you can break rapport back and say something like, "They're not that hard, feel them..." and see what she does. If she feels your nipples and chest, it's pretty much on and you can kiss her. If she doesn't you can just transition into qualifying her and escalate on her as a reward based on the amount of her investment. |
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