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| Author: | thequietlife [ Thu Feb 26, 2015 9:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Conversation leading to arguments.(text game) |
Ok i get the number bla bla bla. My conversations usually star off well or low investment. However shortly after its like speaking to two different girls. They start giving you shit one word answers or the conversations just dry out as the girls not opening up. It happens a lot where a girl will say "you think you're better than you are" " your a twat, this and that. Just basically loads of insults" however in between these moments if i ask them to do something like edit a picture they will :S. Why do i bring out girls like "angry side". Even though iv'e basically done nothing to do them. I'm not needy as i pop up maybe once/twice a week if that. They say im rude or im this and that without actually doing anything to them. So i know i shouldnt flip but it got to me once. So i said "no wonder you're still single,chat to me when you learn some respect" to almost put my foot down as i was sick of the rudeness. PROBLEM 1. How do i get a girl to open up more often and just have an engaging conversation and not having the odd 1 or 2 and actually keep the majority of conversations rolling(i know this is my problem in to getting the meets, the lack of rapport building) PROBLEM 2: how do avoid these bitchy girls(they cant all be bitchy, but something im doing brings out of them not sure what, not sure if its my negs etc or what) I try to keep the conversation light and fun but just never happens. |
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| Author: | thequietlife [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 8:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Conversation leading to arguments.(text game) |
how do i move or remove this ? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Mar 03, 2015 4:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Conversation leading to arguments.(text game) |
Quote: how do i move or remove this ?
Move it where? This seems like the right spot for it.If this is a universal reaction from girls in general, then have a look at the situation and see who/what is the common denominator (hint: it's you). You're doing something wrong, dude. You're either being too aggressive or you're dropping some negs you shouldn't be... or something else. Not sure what the problem is? Then text less... You shouldn't be texting a girl to the point of one-word answers anyway. Get her out. See her in person. |
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| Author: | RomanReigns [ Tue Mar 03, 2015 6:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Conversation leading to arguments.(text game) |
Don't look to build rapport over texts. Use texting solely to set up an in-person meetup. A text to someone whose number you just got recently can look something like...."Hey Jenny, hope you had an awesome weekend and blah blah blah. I went snowboarding with a bunch of friends and we made smores over the fireplace. Best time ever! Shall we grab a drink sometime this week? Let me know what your schedule looks like!"...This way you don't neg over texts from the getgo and avoid using texting as fluff talk. That will kill the fire between you two quickly. Use it to set up a date and don't fluff! You'll get much better receptions. Charm and neg and do whatever you'd like in person, worlds more efficient and natural. Hope this helps! |
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| Author: | thequietlife [ Wed Mar 04, 2015 8:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Conversation leading to arguments.(text game) |
Definitely food for though. Its just i'm a natural wind up merchant. Im sometimes how i am with my male friends that competitive/challenging sort of vibe i guess. You know what us boys can be like together. I also can't quite put my finger on it but when i talk people aren't that interested in what i say. Also not all the time if but if i say things like a joke that wasn't funny or have a conversation topic it can cause an awkward SPAM not really sure how to transition so it doesn't stand out. Cause i get the "you're weird vibe". |
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