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| Author: | Hiatus [ Mon Feb 09, 2015 5:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | here comes the silence |
Hello. This same thing has happened to me several times and I want to know what I can do next time with the next girls.5 different relationships in the last month and the same problem perpetuates over and over again (it might not be a technical problem but one of inner game...i dont know) So, i'll describe one situation witch is stereotipical for the last month (19 years old, i just discovered PU at the begining of this year and i'm now able to finally have a fucking girl) First date/first time we meet eachother, all going well through the seduction process- we kiss, we touch etc. so after this moment we could be qualified as a couple, I guess, if I play the right way to keep the girl From now on, the question divides in two: 1)One problem is that i still remain in the 'seduction mode', the frame with witch i begin with to seduce her (playing games, hand of god, eye contact, kino, stories etc).Shouldn't the frame become more serious after the kiss? How should my attitude change?..the couple attitude? Since i dont know what the difference between seduction and couple attitude is, i keep screwing things up (at least that's how i see it). 2)The second one is that ....no surprise everyone...I run out of things to say.But in a natural and intrinsic way.I know what Tyler said (it's not what you say but how you say it; everything you say is cool because it comes from you, everything you say is interesting because you think is interesting) but we still have silences when we look at eachother and say nothing. Is that normal in an already established relationship?How to treat those moments ?cause I make things worse by becoming nervous.. So this is it.I hope I followed the rules.Any advice or direction of study would be welcomed. Best wishes guys, Hiatus |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 2:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: here comes the silence |
How long have you been together and did you two already have sex? You should calibrate based on her behavior. If she breaks rapport, you break rapport back. If she qualifies herself to you, you reward her with escalation. If you already kissed, you already solidified attraction. Once you already have sex with the girl, you can relax a little more and not be in "seduction mode" so much. If you run out of things to say, make an observation in the environment or ask questions about her to have her qualifying and give you topics to talk about and build commonalities. |
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