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Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Sat Jan 24, 2015 5:16 am ]
Post subject:  i don't approach my target when i spot it
Hello there.

im a new to THE GAME and im just starting out. i've been with 8 different girls which each one i've fucked tenths of times. i'm kinda an intermediate, but i've really never cold approached a girl like going the mall or something and just open a set. the girls i've been with did the job, they either opened a set with me! or they were my classmates which didn't build big barriers in front of me to talk to them

all the girls i've been with are all 8s and 9s and 10s.. im a good looking guy and kinda popular like what im tryna say im not that guy who just freezes when he tries to talk to a girl.. its just i don't even know what


my inner game is game but my outer game suck balls. my only sticking point is when i spot a target. i back up and just don't approach. even tho im aware about the free-of-outcome mindset. i've read articles and seen videos and blah blah blah but i don't seem to be able to demonstrate.

any solutions? :cry: :cry:
Author:  PUA Cyclone [ Sat Jan 24, 2015 11:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: i don't approach my target when i spot it
Why not just stick with the chicks you were already banging? They were hot dude
Author:  oceanx [ Sat Jan 24, 2015 12:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i don't approach my target when i spot it
It's just run of the mill approach anxiety my dude. Read up on it. Any questions, post in your thread here. Overcome your AA and you are fucking golden.
Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Sat Jan 24, 2015 6:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i don't approach my target when i spot it
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Why not just stick with the chicks you were already banging? They were hot dude

lol i fucked them so much i got board besides after that we would break up
Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Sat Jan 24, 2015 6:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i don't approach my target when i spot it
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It's just run of the mill approach anxiety my dude. Read up on it. Any questions, post in your thread here. Overcome your AA and you are fucking golden.

im trying

yes i think this fucking approach anxiety is the thing holding me back

i read many times about it

i trying flying solo and tried with a wing man but didn't seem to help :/
Author:  oceanx [ Sun Jan 25, 2015 2:05 am ]
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Once you get over the initial approach anxiety you are now experiencing and see that talking to women & seeing where things go is fun, it will get easier for you to approach on an ongoing basis. But there will probably always be a level of approach anxiety no matter how good you get.

As you'll find out if you get into this, once you start speaking with girls on a particular day, the AA will fade significantly for that day.

You feel the fear but you act in spite of the fear - it's called courage. You got this bro.
Author:  XXJUICEXX [ Sun Jan 25, 2015 5:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: i don't approach my target when i spot it
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Once you get over the initial approach anxiety you are now experiencing and see that talking to women & seeing where things go is fun, it will get easier for you to approach on an ongoing basis. But there will probably always be a level of approach anxiety no matter how good you get.

As you'll find out if you get into this, once you start speaking with girls on a particular day, the AA will fade significantly for that day.

You feel the fear but you act in spite of the fear - it's called courage. You got this bro.
i think you inspired me.. gotta get that courage then.

thank you
Author:  Genoda [ Sun Feb 01, 2015 1:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: i don't approach my target when i spot it
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Once you get over the initial approach anxiety you are now experiencing and see that talking to women & seeing where things go is fun, it will get easier for you to approach on an ongoing basis. But there will probably always be a level of approach anxiety no matter how good you get.

As you'll find out if you get into this, once you start speaking with girls on a particular day, the AA will fade significantly for that day.

You feel the fear but you act in spite of the fear - it's called courage. You got this bro.
i think you inspired me.. gotta get that courage then.

thank you
Gotta wear the shoes to get used to them. I find the 3 second rule works best with Approach Anxiety. As soon as you see the target go straight for it without thinking.
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