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| Author: | ASmooth90 [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 12:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Escalation |
Sup playas?! I'm having trouble with escalation. I've gotten really good at approaching, I can consistently approach hot girls, start an interesting and/or funny interaction, and I can almost always number or email close. My friends think I'm a fucking king with women (because they only get laid through the social circle). Problem is, I'm not able to escalate with any of these girls. Here are reoccurring situations that have happened many times: In the club/bar: I have a bf (ignore this, continue the interaction). When I ask for the number, the bf objection comes up again. After a day game number close: I text her, ask for a date, and sometimes she'll say yes, other times she'll flake. I'm unable to f close on the first date so far, whenever I suggest that they "come back to my place for a movie" or something along those lines, I usually get shot down. The girls who do come out for a first date usually flake when I ask for a day 2. I think I may be coming off as too much of a nice guy, or the opposite, I may be coming off as a guy who just wants to fuck her. Any suggestions for things I could try would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 1:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Escalation |
I'll address your daygame... 1. Build attraction as long as possible and keep building...turn that moment into a date if you can. 2. If her time or your time is limited, get her number as soon as possible and the best time to leave is when she is giving you lots of IOI's and her undivided attention. Don't get the number and leave immediately. 3. When you get the number, make sure that she knows that the intent is to meet up and have a date. 4. Call her for a date...don't text her. Text is emotionless. 5. Don't wait days to call. Call the same day if time allows in order to set up a meet. Flakes will still happen. It's part of PU that you can't avoid. The real key is stirring emotion and being intriguing. If you can intrigue her, she'll want to spend more time with you. |
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