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Author:  r3dalien [ Tue Dec 30, 2014 5:28 am ]
Post subject:  Going from a good friend to a romantic

My whole life i've always been considered the good friend. High school, College, at partys, clubs, parks, ect, ect... Day or night, where ever im at, i can open. I can keep a good mid game. Tbh Im a horrible closer but that will come in time im sure. But every girl i'm attracted to puts me in that "good friend" category. At some point i get placed into the "friendzone". This happens ALOT. I've never had a GF cause of this problem. I'll get a girl every now and then i sleep with. But for once in my 24 years of existence i want something more. I'd like to say im a good looking guy. Compered to other redheads, im really good looking. I really dont know what my issue is. Anyone got any advice on how to help this poor soulless ginger?

Author:  r3dalien [ Tue Dec 30, 2014 5:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Going from a good friend to a romantic

O, im not good at my push or pull. Any advice on how to be quit witted or something i can read. That would also be greatly appreciated

Author:  JackZero [ Tue Dec 30, 2014 6:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Going from a good friend to a romantic

How available are you to these girls? I'm willing to bet that the answer to this question is the root of your issue.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 30, 2014 4:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Going from a good friend to a romantic

Ya this could be a number of things...

Like JackZero says, it could be your availability (IE: are you always willing to help them out or give them a ride or *BE* their best buddy?)

I was also going to say that you're possibly not making yourself appear to be a sexual option from the outset of meeting new people. How do you do this? You flirt and you touch and you let them know (non-verbally) that you'd like to get in their pants.

Author:  Dragula [ Tue Dec 30, 2014 4:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Going from a good friend to a romantic

Stop being a kick ass nice guys, be more direct, touch her in ways you wouldn't touch a friend, escalate

Author:  r3dalien [ Tue Dec 30, 2014 5:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Going from a good friend to a romantic

I am always available for them. I guess that's a huge fault I have but that will change starting today. I don't know how to touch them with out being qualified as a creeper. When is it appropriate to do it and where exactly can I touch them? My keno skill is poor, as you already can all tell

Author:  Dragula [ Tue Dec 30, 2014 5:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Going from a good friend to a romantic

Just google bro or search the forum. I am guessing you could be a virgin

Author:  r3dalien [ Wed Dec 31, 2014 12:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Going from a good friend to a romantic

No im not a virgin. I lost it at 20.... Im sure you have all lost it way before i ever had. I'll be reading forms and how to do this. I found a buddy to go out with and get some girls. So maybe things will get a little better from here on out.

Author:  Miami_J [ Mon Jan 05, 2015 11:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Going from a good friend to a romantic

Read this thread carefully before you go out next time, it will help alot...

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