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| Author: | JR_99 [ Sat Oct 18, 2014 5:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What am I doing wrong? |
Im a music producer with goals and big dreams, and currently working on making my dreams a reality. I've been in this pick up community for a while, and gotten some success. I have no problem approaching beautiful women and talking to them, just can't seem to close the deal and get a follow up. Is it my belief system? my technique? or a mixture of both? Or do i have to keep going out until i hit success? Help me out here! |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Sat Oct 18, 2014 5:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What am I doing wrong? |
Quote: Im a music producer with goals and big dreams, and currently working on making my dreams a reality. I've been in this pick up community for a while, and gotten some success. I have no problem approaching beautiful women and talking to them, just can't seem to close the deal and get a follow up. Is it my belief system? my technique? or a mixture of both? Or do i have to keep going out until i hit success?
How would I know if it's your technique if I don't know you're technique? Help me out here! Whats your typical approach? Whats an example of a time you thought a girl was really into and you couldn't follow up on it? Need details. Right now your question reads as follows "hey, I'm not banging enough women, what gives?" |
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| Author: | JR_99 [ Sat Oct 18, 2014 5:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What am I doing wrong? |
yeah pretty much. I like josh pellicer's tao of badass, and ive read and applied it on multiple occasions. I think my problem is I don't build enough rapport. also im real introverted, so turning on my charisma to talk to girls is like turning on a light switch. for example; when i go out i like to stay to myself most of the time, but the moment i see a girl i want to talk to i approach with a burst of enthusiasm and positivity. i take frequent breaks from interactions because talking to people drains the life out of me. Sometimes i won't hit back with a girl cause simply i don't feel like talking, or i wait a while before i do. so how can a introvert like me rock with women? |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sun Oct 19, 2014 5:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What am I doing wrong? |
Quote: I have no problem approaching beautiful women and talking to them, just can't seem to close the deal and get a follow up. Is it my belief system? my technique? or a mixture of both? Or do i have to keep going out until i hit success?
It MAY be your vibe and persona. Come from a place of abundance and give the girl good vibes, rather than trying to "get" something from her such as her phone number. Come with the smooth, carefree playful, relaxed, comfortable vibe that you would have if you just finished having sex with your version of an HB10.
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Oct 19, 2014 6:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What am I doing wrong? |
Assuming you have the basic fundamentals, I.e. Not looking like a creep, has an accent that is not weird. Dress creepy, super nervous, you're not boring as fuck or really over/underweight weight, disabilities... If the girls you're currently approaching are laughing and give you the time of day then you're probably not pulling the trigger (making the move on her) The 2 biggest anxieties are approaching and escalating. The reason they host the most anxiety is because with out one or the other, you ain't going to get laid often. Perhaps if you're lucky if you find a rare girl that games you. |
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