What is attraction and how do i create it i am pretty much good to go on every other aspect ( maybe not so much about opening) but i just dont know how to make a girl attracted to me
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| Author: | Krowed1234 [ Sat Oct 11, 2014 5:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I have 0 idea what attraction is. |
What is attraction and how do i create it i am pretty much good to go on every other aspect ( maybe not so much about opening) but i just dont know how to make a girl attracted to me
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| Author: | Mastermind9000 [ Sat Oct 11, 2014 6:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I have 0 idea what attraction is. |
There's your problem, you can't make it happen. Just be your friendly cool self and if she is attracted she is. That's all there is to it. You aren't talking to make a girl attracted, you are just seeing if she is. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sat Oct 11, 2014 10:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I have 0 idea what attraction is. |
Also you are screening the girl to see if she's cool enough to chill with you. So she looks good, who cares, what's her vibe like. Rather than looking to find out if the girl is attracted, assume she is attracted; after all why wouldn't she be, in the presence of a suave dude. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Sat Oct 11, 2014 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I have 0 idea what attraction is. |
Attraction is simply the girl being interested in you. A lot of people confuse that with seduction, which implies something sexual. But attraction is a step down from seduction because it only means that she is drawn to something about you, whether it be looks, money, status, attitude, mystique, charm, etc. How do you get her attracted to you? She may already be to begin with, or soon realize she is after meeting you. But you also might need to help the process along a little bit. Hopefully you've heard of rapport building. That is an important stage, because you need to establish comfort and trust before moving on to attraction, particularly if instant attraction is lacking. Once you have done that then you use tactics like DHV and push/pull to generate attraction. Those things entail demonstrating excellence and social value and making her chase you and seek validation. A whole lot goes into that though. There really is something formulaic about it, but you need to understand the whole process. That's why all these PUA's develop specific methodologies to generate attraction. When you do the formula correct, it does work. |
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| Author: | translation [ Sun Oct 12, 2014 8:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I have 0 idea what attraction is. |
Attraction is 3 parts. Today I'll only talk about the first. It has 3 sub-parts. Displaying A High-Value 1a) Inner Character Traits - confidence - unaffected - cool There's more, but you get the point. Are you these things ? If you aren't. Work at it. Be more confident. Feel it. 1b) Actions Its not a question so much of what to do. But what to stop doing. Assuming you're frequenting night spots, are you circling the club, going out alone, standing in the corner. Stop doing these things. 1c)Behavioural - facial expressions - body language (posture etc ...) - micro movements - weird twitches or habits - articulation - tonallity Has to do mostly with delivery. How are you interacting? You need to work on behaving in a confident manner. Its gonna be a decently long-journey, probably. But take small steps and work fast. Things will work out fine. The best way, is to start with point 1. The inner-traits. When you feel confident, and calm. It will reflect in your actions and behaviour. Its not as hard as people think, we're not just talking about long-term change. You can artificially short-term wise jack up your confidence levels etc ... Try this trick. On a daily basis. tell yourself "i'm too charming, she wont reject me". Assume interest, don't assume disinterest which I'm guessing is what you do, if you're honest in your own analysis. Gdluck, Translation. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sun Oct 12, 2014 8:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I have 0 idea what attraction is. |
Also, to the OP, watch some Brad Pitt movies, watch some movies of men being men even old school movies. Notice how they engage with women. You are a man. Women are naturally attracted to you. |
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