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Author:  Miehver [ Fri Sep 26, 2014 11:03 pm ]
Post subject:  no sexual lust :(
Hello fellows. I have a real problem . I haven't had sex in 2 years . Every time I get out I get approuched by girls. It goes well the first 5 minutes and then i freez up . I have had erectile dysfunction for a few years , and even though I like the girl and want to have sex with here I feel no sexual lust . It's hard for me cause if I could take advantige of all the action that comes my way , I would have had sex with more than 300 woman now. I've only scored about 50. My dick is working fine , but I have no sexual desire. I so want to get back on the horse and play the game ,) Thanks for any sugestions ;) and sorry for bad spelling. I am norwegian ;=: Thor helge.
Author:  mackinpro [ Sat Sep 27, 2014 7:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: no sexual lust :(
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Hello fellows. I have a real problem . I haven't had sex in 2 years . Every time I get out I get approuched by girls. It goes well the first 5 minutes and then i freez up . I have had erectile dysfunction for a few years , and even though I like the girl and want to have sex with here I feel no sexual lust . It's hard for me cause if I could take advantige of all the action that comes my way , I would have had sex with more than 300 woman now. I've only scored about 50. My dick is working fine , but I have no sexual desire. I so want to get back on the horse and play the game ,) Thanks for any sugestions ;) and sorry for bad spelling. I am norwegian ;=: Thor helge.
Stop fapping for a while to build up your sex drive.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Sat Sep 27, 2014 1:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: no sexual lust :(
How often do you watch pornography and how often do you masturbate?
Author:  Mastermind9000 [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 8:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: no sexual lust :(
Sorry guys, this isn't about jacking off. It's about having a negative emotional association with sexual arousal. "Sexual proformance anxiety". He could never masterbate again and it won't help. It's a tough one I face as well.

Select girls based on comfort, girls you don't fear judgement from. You need to make efforts to rebuild your sexual confidence and to know lust is not only ok, but a good feeling. Girls want you to feel it for them and they want you to feel good about it.
Author:  mackinpro [ Fri Oct 03, 2014 12:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: no sexual lust :(
Quote:
Sorry guys, this isn't about jacking off. It's about having a negative emotional association with sexual arousal. "Sexual proformance anxiety". He could never masterbate again and it won't help. It's a tough one I face as well.

Select girls based on comfort, girls you don't fear judgement from. You need to make efforts to rebuild your sexual confidence and to know lust is not only ok, but a good feeling. Girls want you to feel it for them and they want you to feel good about it.
Wait what types of things trigger this then because im sure fapping to porn is the main one..
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Fri Oct 03, 2014 1:35 am ]
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I think its more likely caused by performance anxiety.
Author:  Mastermind9000 [ Fri Oct 03, 2014 2:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: no sexual lust :(
Quote:
Quote:
Sorry guys, this isn't about jacking off. It's about having a negative emotional association with sexual arousal. "Sexual proformance anxiety". He could never masterbate again and it won't help. It's a tough one I face as well.

Select girls based on comfort, girls you don't fear judgement from. You need to make efforts to rebuild your sexual confidence and to know lust is not only ok, but a good feeling. Girls want you to feel it for them and they want you to feel good about it.
Wait what types of things trigger this then because im sure fapping to porn is the main one..
Normally it is due to a bad sexual experience in the past; one which leads to a guy doubting him ability to satisfy his partner or for him to fear embarrassment by failing to sustain an erection or cum.
Author:  Miehver [ Sat Oct 04, 2014 4:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: no sexual lust :(
Thanx for all the answers . I am sure there is some performance anxiety here. Cause it's hard when the dick doesn't get inspired . I got laid on thursday though but it was an half ass experience. Think maybe I must go for the hb 9 or 10s instead of 7 and 8s. Thanks again . Thor.
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