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| Author: | PUAKush [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 6:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Fucking BOREFRIENDS |
Hey guys, so I used to do a couple approaches now and then. Now for the past 2 week I've been going out 3 times a week usually approaching 8-10 girls or so. I'm usually good at a flowing conversation, even before I started cold approaching. BUT there's a huge problem. Boyfriends. No matter how smooth or verbally sexual the conversation turns between me and the girl, she ends up saying she has a boyfriend. I'm still enjoying the process but this is kinda getting annoying. This last day I had 7 great conversations,all had boyfriends its like no attractive girl is single in my town lol, got 6 phone #s, but who the fuck cares about the #, I'm counting with day 2s now and so far I've had 0. For the advanced guys, how does someone get past the dreaded boyfriend objection in a direction that goes somewhere beyond the phone #. I've seen a lot of PUA infields. Most of them ended up with their dicks in their hand whenever a girl mentioned the boyfriend. This will be very helpful. If possible can somebody audio record this being done by showing the initial pickup and the day 2? I think it would be a big breakthrough in the pickup community as a whole if somebody can solve this problem which most PUAs face. Thanks |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 12:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fucking BOREFRIENDS |
Firstly, I hope you're not the one bringing the topic up (IE: do you have a boyfriend?) If you are, stop that shit immediately. Understand that sometimes this is a real excuse, and sometimes it isn't. If it isn't a real excuse, then she could be trying to politely tell you she's not interested. She could also be talking about someone she's sort of interested in, has maybe fooled around with, but isn't dating. If it's the latter, you've got a shot. You need to read her body language throughout your exchange to be able to tell if she's politely rejecting you or if you've got a shot... In my experience the very best thing to do when the word 'boyfriend' comes up is to completely ignore it. If it's not a legit boyfriend, she may not bring 'him' up again. Treat it like it never happened, and literally just keep talking. If she brings it up again, or several times, you may want to back off cause you're not going to get very far with her... and it's probably a legit boyfriend... Or, she's just plain not interested. |
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| Author: | PUAKush [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 3:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fucking BOREFRIENDS |
Okay yeh I never even bring up the boyfriend. It honestly looks as if we had a great convo and I have I studied body language for quite a while, before I actually did the very first approach of my life. I knew for certain that 5 of them were definitely into me. In all my conversations I ignored the boyfriend and continued talking. My plan usually goes build a connection, bounce for an instant date, if not get the # and ask what day she's free. Has anyone actually had a successful lay from a girl who had a boyfriend. In that scenario, what ended up happening? Lol I'm going to just assume every girl has a boyfriend to avoid the reaction at the end. I think it's a good sign that at least, in my interactions, that they don't bring up the boyfriend immediately. I personally take this as a good sign. I know pickup is a #s game, but there are definitely ways to maximize one's chances of succeeding, just like basketball. That's one reason why I don't go direct. I was looking at a pickup artist named Justin Wayne. That motherfucker can pull like a boss and he's definitely not as physically attractive as I am. Btw for those that do think he's fake, I've know a guy who worked for him as a sub-coach. He's legit. Just don't know what he does. But it cant just be that advanced guys are settling for the same result when they have the boyfriend. |
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