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| Author: | alik33 [ Sun Jul 20, 2014 10:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | serious vs humorous |
Sup guys, I face this "serious state vs humorous state" problem many times and even due to that I overthink about this thing which leads me into something like headache hehe. After some experience I found out that I was not naturally humorous. I also dont wanna say that I am super naturally humorous now, after my inner-game progress. But the thing I wanna express in this topic is that I have got something like 2 states: a)serious, b)humorous. And I cant mix them into one state. Mostly this problem occurs to me when I approach a girl on the street during daylight. When I go into that with state "just be yourself, chill - serious" - as I use to be, it goes like: Me: "Hey, I saw you walking past and you seemed to me like an interesting girl so I came to meet you." HB: "Hey, thank you." Me: dont know what so say -when this occurs, I dont know how to continue because I "am myself and I CHILL" so my state is "serious and I dont give a fuck about anything". This causes that I cant comment on what she said. On the other side, when I go into the set "have fun! let them fall into your reality - humorous state" it is like this: Me: "Hey, I saw you walking past and you semmed to me like an interesting girl so I came to meet you." HB: answers the same like before Me: "Hey! Is it the only thing you can answer me?! I cant even answer properly because you said almost nothing to me!" (smile) HB: having fun -with this state I come into set as more enthusiastic guy and with high energy -this goes well when I use that but when I am in this "humorous state" for some time(it doesnt need to be long time, sometimes only few responses can make seem to be clown), I seem like a clown to myself. This slows me in my progress with women. Also when I go into set with either first or second state, I everytime seem to be natural and not pretending to be natural but the humorous one makes me "clown" because after short time only being cockyANDfunny makes me one big tryhard and being serious makes me weirdo who doesnt know the fun, who isnt creative and cant evolve the conversation. I cant combine these two states into one which would be cool and which would make girls enjoy the time with me. Any tips about inner-game, guys? |
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