Jsmooth had a good one posted today:
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Still trying to figure out who to send this to tonight
I text the same night I get the number- there is a lot of debate about if this is dhv or dlv - but I just read this post by Tyler d. (that I found on this board) and he has no issue contacting the girls the same night. The trick is just to come off as being fun and spontaneous and not being needy-
I'll typically write something like "I hope your not still at that bar". This works great if your at some after hours party cuz there is the possibility of meeting again that night. Even if your not at a party just respond to her like you have a million things going on and tell her you'll call her some time.
If it is the next day "tag, your it" is always fun- cuz the next response is always "who is this???" and then you can get into all sorts of fun!
to lighten the neg further, then just make a brief comment about your encounter (she was surprisingly interesting to talk to; she had a unique way about her which you found refreshing etc). Then make it clear that you have places to go (when I'm texting, I always have a place to go, like band practice). This helps me DHV further. I then outro with "take care trouble!