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| Author: | Adidas12 [ Thu Jul 17, 2014 4:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do u build Comfort? |
Im an attractive guy so I get attraction pretty easily. The problem im having is building comfort. How do you guys build comfort to get the SNL? Or how do u build comfort in general? I go an snl from telling one girl I was a nerd and I liked cognitive science. This was a lighting point for her as she just happened to be majoring in that. Another girl I banged we had alot in common in terms of music and movie taste. But overall, I have trouble building comfort. Because of this I have gotten alot of LMR lately. Girls will be like I barely know u, we just met.....aka not enough comfort. |
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| Author: | alik33 [ Thu Jul 17, 2014 10:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do u build Comfort? |
I would say: dont think about "how to build comfort?" When I date a girl, I am confident since the first eye contact till the close. Just enjoy the conversation, talk about what happened to you today, yesterday, week ago, months ago, whatever. Express the emotions, use your body language. When I talk about what happened to me, she everytime joins this flow and she starts to do the same. She will tell you about her experience, she will tell you her stories of life etc. Think about that like this: 1.Do I feel comfort when I speak to my friends? Yes. 2.What do I speak about with them? About what I did during the day, what I did on holiday, what I felt when my mom told me that she loves me |
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| Author: | LIFE PUA [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 12:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do u build Comfort? |
Quote: Im an attractive guy so I get attraction pretty easily. The problem im having is building comfort. How do you guys build comfort to get the SNL? Or how do u build comfort in general?
Work on building sexual rapport. Qualify her on her sexuality. I go an snl from telling one girl I was a nerd and I liked cognitive science. This was a lighting point for her as she just happened to be majoring in that. Another girl I banged we had alot in common in terms of music and movie taste. But overall, I have trouble building comfort. Because of this I have gotten alot of LMR lately. Girls will be like I barely know u, we just met.....aka not enough comfort. A SNL does not need Comfort so to speak. You need more investment and less state breaks. Normally speaking, you must have her buying temperature high at all times and minimize state breaks. I bust LMR with Rapport Breaks before I try to escalate. Tease, Back Turn, Freeze out, etc. Any Rapport Break cycles her to invest more and chase sexual validation. If you need more comfort, the way I do it, is more venues. I use the multi-venue trick to build enough Comfort. Atleast two venue changes, a couple isolations, and a couple movements within Venue usually locks in Comfort and Investment for me. |
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