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| Author: | sheardude [ Tue Jun 24, 2014 12:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do I learn how to break rapport/flirt? |
As I practice game more and more, I'm starting to realize that I have pretty bad sticking point. While I can hold conversation somewhat well, I'm having trouble breaking rapport. This includes things such as push/pull, negs, teasing her, etc. I've always been too nice and the whole idea of doing it does not feel natural to me at all, but I have to do it in order to attract girls. It's one of building blocks of attraction. The closest thing I do to this now is purposely disagree with a girl on something that doesn't matter in order to challenge her. Usually I play "would you rather" with the girl in order to do this. It's annoying because I have such great conversations with girls, but nothing sexual comes out of them. I've had really great dates or interactions with girls, but they lose interest in me sexually because I don't do this. There were other reasons as well such as me being too nervous, giving too much eye contact, etc., but I'm catching a lot of these and am seeing improvements. The only reason I got a makeout session with a cute girl at a club last weekend was because I didn't speak to the girl, it was all dance floor game. I also fear adopting the idea of breaking rapport because I feel I would overdo it and it would come off as mean. My question is: What is the easiest to start implementing breaking rapport or flirting into my interactions with women if it does not feel natural? I don't care if it's canned lines to start or whatever, I just need to start implementing these. I'm still fairly new to practicing all of this, but so far, so good. Any replies would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | Merzk [ Tue Jun 24, 2014 2:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I learn how to break rapport/flirt? |
Get the pdf for Gamblers book "natural game" it has a whole section about how and when to break rapport helps alot |
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| Author: | sheardude [ Tue Jun 24, 2014 5:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I learn how to break rapport/flirt? |
Quote: Get the pdf for Gamblers book "natural game" it has a whole section about how and when to break rapport helps alot
Thanks! I'll take a look at that tonight.
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Jun 24, 2014 5:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I learn how to break rapport/flirt? |
or just type into google/youtiube "how to break rapport?" |
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| Author: | alik33 [ Wed Jul 16, 2014 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I learn how to break rapport/flirt? |
just start being confident and do those breaking-raport things.. dont be scared of that.. do you know how I did it first time? I went for a date with a girl and I told to myself: I will be the biggest bitch, if I dont like something even a bit, I will let her know who the fuck I am and what the fuck I think about that. It will be hard for you but dont lose your frame when you do that. Dont apologyze. |
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