DHV can be a vague concept, but I hope I clear things up. Basically, there's a principle to keep in the back of your mind and that's the more perceived work you put in, the less valuable you seem. The less perceived work you put in, the more valuable you seem.
Examples: Think of two men talking to one another, and while Guy #1 is leaning in, asking the Guy #2 every question under the sun trying to get a little info from him, Guy #2 is responding to Guy #1 with one-worded answers, an aloof body language, and overall relaxed and easy going demeanor. Who looks more powerful in the conversation? If you said Guy #2, you're beginning to understand DHV.
Think about it this way. We are putting in a great deal of effort learning the game to meet women. If you met a woman and hit it off with her using some of the techniques you've learned from the PUA community, then you'll be more successful. But, if you let her in on the fact that you spend time in learning PUA to be the master attractor that you are, than her interest in you will probably evaporate.
DHV is not about showing off how rich you are, or how well-traveled, or how well you can play the saxophone. DHV is about realizing that YOU are in full control of YOU. If you play the game (or life in general) with the mentality that you are in control of what happens to you, then that's another good indicator.
A mindset that I personally use the most is the idea that "I am giving this woman the opportunity to talk to me, know me, and sleep with me." By putting myself in the position that my time is a gift to her, I am DHV. Most men will try to go out in order to "get laid." The key word here is "get." People with high value don't need to "get" anything because they have it all. People with high value have the resources to "give."
So, in short;
-Don't try so hard (or seem like you are)
and
-Enter with the right mindset (DHV is deeply rooted in your inner game)
Remember that wise men never say that they are wise. 
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