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Author:  rockleedrift [ Sun Mar 02, 2008 1:11 pm ]
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Sup PUAs?

Not sure whether you can call this a sticking point, but anyone know anything that helps to NOT get a hardon when a girl is grinding her butt against your lower region? Or when makingout? makingouts the biggest problem because for them its comfort... go figure... :?
Author:  Rufless [ Mon Mar 03, 2008 7:26 am ]
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think about really non sexual things... if you can fake being into it but think about openers or something that might work haha. no idea, sorry man :S
Author:  Beaker [ Tue Mar 04, 2008 7:15 pm ]
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Yeah you should just think about a toothless old granny haha, if you get a boner she going to think "he after just 1 thing" and you don't want her to know thats she right!
Author:  rockleedrift [ Tue Mar 04, 2008 8:42 pm ]
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Not so worried about the dancing problem anymore, if she is rubbing her ass against my groin, i mean... what can she say? "WHY DO YOU HAVE A BONER!? :shock: " "Your behind, friction, and my pants = ?"

but the makeout thing is a bitch man... Specially now that I know its comfort for them... I'll try the granny thing, I'm very visual when I think (studying to be a cinematographer), so this should help. Just hope I don't get a dazed look or something while we're kissing :P
Author:  Incubus69 [ Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:13 am ]
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Hey man, it's no prob at all. Actually a woman gets more aroused by a hard dick against their front or ass or whatever. Why in the hell would they do that if they know you were gonna get hard and horny. It's only natural and you don't have to be ashamed of.

The next time the girl does that kiss her neck then turn her around and grind against her leg looking deeply in her eyes. Turn her head and suck on her neck then look at her eyes again-this is a big turn on for women looking in their eyes. It'll get them to feel that sexual tension. It's also will attract them like a magnet. Go slowly for the kiss then feel her ass. If she's breathing faster and her eyes are dialated then go for it. If she's licking her lips or rubbing against your body with her hands then go for it. This is all green for go!
Author:  Difference [ Wed Mar 05, 2008 10:11 am ]
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Agreed with Stealth. While that stuff to get her turned on is good, if Rocklee was worried about getting a raging member when kissing, when there's no possibility to take things further, it doesn't matter.

And for fucks sake, don't, don't , DON'T think of a toothless old granny. How are you
a) going to enjoy a kiss whilst thinking about that,
b) how is SHE going to enjoy the kiss if you aren't even thinking about what you are doing.

You are kissing and attractive girl, JUST KISS HER!! AND RELISH THE MOMENT!

If you get hard, big deal. If she notices, tell her that kissing a hot girl gets your blood flowing.
Author:  rockleedrift [ Wed Mar 05, 2008 2:32 pm ]
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thanks guys :)
Author:  keruli [ Wed Mar 05, 2008 3:15 pm ]
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its natures way of saying: " Hey i kinda like that ... by all means grind some more :D "

keruli
Author:  Green_Eyes [ Wed Mar 05, 2008 8:41 pm ]
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You cant keep your self from getting a boner from a girl unless she just cant dance at all and she is ugly and fat. Let me say something. Its called lust. With lust comes desire. And what you desire is to grind that girl or kiss her. Hence forth your turn on because you want her or find her attractive. One thing that a girl wont find attractive is if you end up cumming in your pants. The reasons why are the following:
1)Your to easy to please meaning less pleasing for her
2)Your no longer into it, that happens whenever you cumm
3)Your Dick is soft now, she is no longer feeling anything
4)Your an AFC just like everyone else that she grinds with, You cummed 2 minute into her grinding on you=no fun
Author:  rockleedrift [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 1:58 am ]
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I never said anything about cummin dude... thats not a problem for me.
Author:  Green_Eyes [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 6:17 pm ]
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Lol.Just thought I should say that. You never know the problem some people face. This could be a very big sticky point for some people.
Author:  leftytheking [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 4:20 am ]
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Hahaha, sticky point... Oh the irony....
Author:  shazzbott [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 11:02 pm ]
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haha fuck that, dont be worried about getting a boner when grinding on a chick, i felt the same way when it first started happening so i asked my roommate what to do. his exact quote - " ha well i always try and get it as close to their vagina as possible" ever since then i have done that and i have never been told off or anything. if they are already dancing with you they are generally interested. good luck
Author:  nuked [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 11:07 pm ]
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First of all, assuming you only met her on the dance floor. The mentality for a girl is that she's doing this as much for her as for you. She wants to get you hard to validate that she is good. However, this doesn't mean she gives a shit about you. To her, you are just a body to rub against. On, the topic of making out. If you are making out with a girl with the prior knowledge your going to fool around or have sex at some point then there is nothing wrong with getting wood. However, its not good to get one early on, shows a lack of self-control.

A legitamte way to not get hard in these situations is to clean your pipes before you go out. Jerk off once before hand, you'll be much more in control of your dick. Ever seen the movie Beta House? Great example as to why you jerk off.
Author:  Juice24 [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 11:32 pm ]
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Yeah that happened to me last night. I was fine for like 40seconds and then she turned around and i was done then
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