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| Author: | pamparus [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 6:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What to do after the opener? |
So u opened a set successfully, and it's now time to DHV.. But how do u escalate from opener to DHV smoothly? What is between those two? |
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| Author: | Ka [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 7:22 pm ] |
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Hobbit offers a good point. Also you have to keep in mind that the mind and thoughts do NOT work in a linear way. In other words your thoughts, even peoples convos jump around. Think about how many times your talking about something and a event, another person...or even your own realizations cut off the first thread and lead to a second, completely unrelated thread. So you opened...banter a bit about thier answer, maybe a neg. Then use a transitional phrase like , "That reminds me..." (compliments of Kino), "Wow, you'll never beleive this...", "Just the other day...". And just follow these with whatever DHV story you want, be it relevant or not to the last thing said. Hope this helps. |
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| Author: | Incubus69 [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 11:29 pm ] |
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Hey bud! Say you opened a three-set and came up with a great opener. Just like Hob said you have to follow-up the opener then tie the opener with a story. A example would be: PUA: Hey-I can't stay long but I needed a woman's female opinion on something... HER: Okay PUA: My friends and I were discussing whether or not if a woman applies too much make up or less affects her being attractive? So the question is would it be better to not wear so much make up and be yourself or wear too much make up and I mean too much that you she actually looks like a barbie doll? HER: I think blah blah blah PUA: Cool...the reason why I asked is because he has met this girl that wears way too much make up and doesn't find her attractive that much, compared to other girls that either wear less or none. Now can my friend do with this girl that he met? Should he convince her not to wear so much make up or just leave her? HER: blah blah blah PUA: I see. This girl is a really nice girl and really sweet, she could be cutier if she doesn't wear so much make up-at least that's my opinion! Is it possible that the girl has low self esteem or just wants to be more beautiful than other women? HER: Blah blah blah PUA: Okay-so you think that [repeat what she said]. I would have to agree with you guys because it reminds me of this one time-where a gil came up to me that was sweet, nice intelligent, and confident; but also weared alittle more make up than I would have wanted. However, her personality was awesome and I really do think that it shouldn't matter about how much make up the woman wears it's more about how they vibe with you, and make you feel...wouldn't you agree? HER: [yes/no] I opened the set with my Make Up Opener. DHV of what I look for in a girl and also added in that really matters in my ideal of attraction with women. Plus, it also makes it sound better if you seem like you're women's choice, also you're accepting no matter of who they are, also confident to tell them if they wear too much make up or whatever. A point of DHV Spikes are because you have to demonstrait you have higher value and also you are a real person. Hope this helps! |
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