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Author:  Chassidko [ Thu Mar 20, 2014 2:04 am ]
Post subject:  good first date, look like losser next one
OK guys

I can get number etc... I can have a ok first date but it's sociable, I can't fucking escalate It's killing me!!

I have escalation anxiety?, either way it just seem so sleazy crude and inappropriate I can't do it and the bitch losses interest.

When I have done I get the look of panic on her face as if I'm trying to rape her when I just use subtle kino... what's going on!?

It's the same when I night game, and when I even get a date, I get her interest and IOIs but they get bored if I don't make a move... but hate it when I do....

WTF is up with them, I'm not running let's be friend with chassidko club you bitches can't be that fucking stupid! Why go out on date in the fucking first place!
Author:  anthonypham [ Thu Mar 20, 2014 8:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: good first date, look like losser next one
Quote:
I can't fucking escalate It's killing me!!

I have escalation anxiety?, either way it just seem so sleazy crude and inappropriate I can't do it and the bitch losses interest.
mate,

i think the problem of not escalating, is the fear of losing. You may fear that the girl gets angry and leaves you, when you escalate. But do you realize that when you do not escalate, the girl will feel friendship with you instead of crush/excitement. And the girl will lose interest, because she finds out that you are not confident enough to escalate. It is worth the risk.

There are several ways to reduce the fear of losing:
1. Date several girls at the same time: when you go out with a girl, then it is more easily to escalate. You don't care if she gets angry or leaves, because you have plenty of girls to date with :)

2. Change your mindset: girls expect you to escalate, when they go out on a date with you. A confident man escalates when he wants to.

3. Get experienced with women: you will notice, when escalating, if the girl likes it or not. Read body language. If she doesn't like you escalating, she will let you know. Don't think you can read her mind.

4. Stop worrying: if she gets angry, then she is not worth your time and attention.
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