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Author:  PUAPDX [ Wed Mar 12, 2014 5:20 am ]
Post subject:  every girl gives me wishy washy answer to hanging out
Hey everyone this is my 1st post so sorry if i posted in the wrong section or this has already been talked about. First some back ground I've only been doing game for 6 months now, But even before getting into it i already did some of the important things naturally. Like I'm naturally C+F.
So anyway my Problem is that i seem to hook & build rapport fine but i cant seem to get them to hang out. Even when we we're just blatantly telling each other we liked each other and i ask them all i get is wishy washy maybes. I'll give an example, but before I do i just want to say THAT THIS IS NOT JUST A PROBLEM WITH ONE GIRL, this is just the most recent one and the one who made me realize the problem. So this girl only works 1 day a week at a barista shop and we've been flirting for about 4 months now (i know way to long, attraction has an expiration date), but only lightly but its been more and more so i dropped from disqualifying to qualifying and we she started qualifying me. I even let the conversation drop and she picked it back up again. so after another couple min i started to use a FTC before i asked her out. she cut me off after the FTC and said "see you next week" in a sad voice so i just continued and asked her. she asked what we would do so i told her the plan and she said "ya..we could" after a couple awkward secs( i know I'm suppose to act like no biggie, but i displayed beta body language here) she said "well i have to clean bye". I don't remember how but then we started talking about instagram and she asked if "do you like my poetry just..to like..it?" i replied with a cocky grin "do you mean do I like them because I like you." she smiled big and said ya i shortly left after a couple more min. This is NOT the only girl I've had this wishy washy answer from, but all the stories are similar only see them often but not fequently and durning the day like class and EMT duty. So my question is in the future what should i do in the future when i get this kinda of response? Any ideas on why i keep getting these types responses?

P.S. if y'all need more detail or other examples i can give them there's a lot more details in the example i just don't wont the post to be too long. thanks in advance
Author:  schoolofromance [ Wed Mar 19, 2014 5:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: every girl gives me wishy washy answer to hanging out
Sounds like the interaction went well.

I believe there are a few factors to work on to solidify the numbers you obtain.

1) Reach further into the emotional progression model. I see that perhaps you are still heavy on C+F during the later phases of the interaction. This can actually work against you if you convey too much player vibe. As you reach comfort, you would want to tone down your C+F and be a little more serious and qualify her appropriately. She might not be comfortable seeing you again because she would think you are just trying to add her to your number list. Remember to be selective because you have plenty of options, or act like you have it.

2) Seed events without asking her out first. Demonstrate you are living an adventurous lifestyle, but do not invite her. Generally doing so will linger the event in her mind and she will be curious why you didn't invite her. She will more likely say yes after you call her to hang out.

OR

3) Future projection. Future projection is a good way to demonstrate that you actually like her and want to see her again in a non-needy way. I am assuming you are doing well in the attraction and early qualification phase. So future project funny events or plausible events the two of you can be doing in the future. This way, it can help her feel comfortable seeing her again.
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