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Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 4:32 am ]
Post subject:  Can't text for nothing!!! Ahhhh
So ever since I got out of a relationship my brain hasn't been working to text right. Say you get a girls #, then it's time to text her. HERE is where I screw everything up.I have no idea what to open with or what to say after that and how to keep it interesting.

If I could see perfect examples of it and at least have someone explain what I'm suppose to do I appreciate it. Like I really mess up here you have NO idea. I'll post of pics, Im not satisfied with myself.
Author:  prince_prince [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 1:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't text for nothing!!! Ahhhh
Just start off with "hey this is (your name)" thats really it man.

The more you think, the more you will be messed up on the game.
Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 5:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't text for nothing!!! Ahhhh
I can definitely agree that I should think less.
But I have no concept of what I should be doing or saying. Don't know how to start and then have an interesting convo after that

As I side note, (that you can answer) I don't really know what to say to girls to start an interesting convo then take it to another step. Skills360 for example does that really good.
Author:  prince_prince [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 8:14 pm ]
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Oh man I feel you. Bro you know what ? I have A couple

of threads on this forum I made on openers. My most famous one

to date is:


"Do you believe in Ghost?" Sounds lame, but trust me man...try it.
Author:  In$tinct [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 9:14 pm ]
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"You girl, get out of my head! I had the craziest dream about you."

If this doesn't get interesting then you're really doing it wrong...
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 11:24 pm ]
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If you don't know what to say, ask yourself, "What is my intent?" and act on your intent.

If your intent is to get some pussy tonight, let her know she turns you on.

If your intent is to have someone join you as a date to an activity, ask her out.
Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 3:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't text for nothing!!! Ahhhh
My motivation is typically for a date.
The ghost opener is cool, what is the reason I'd be asking that?

I know some, good openers like, asking about there dreams, saying you had a dream of them etc. but here's my position...

BAM! I get her number, wait two-three days. Ok it's time to text, I say
"Hey JANE it's Pink"
Her: Hey

THIS is where I freeze up.

P.S. I don't want my game to be ok, I want to reach mastery.
Author:  In$tinct [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 3:40 am ]
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Pink, can you play chess? Just asking because I'm using a chess analogy here...

Patzers complicate, but they don't realize that their combinations suck.

Better players play simple but they are afraid of complications.

Masters play simple and they know when to complicate.

What level are you? I hope you get what I'm saying, if not I will elaborate more...
Author:  jkballer [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 7:02 am ]
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Have you read the text advice post from slipknot?
you can search slipknot and it comes up or this is the link, I know I'm not doing this right:
slipknot-text-advice-thread-vt159416.html
I'm not an expert either but this seems pretty good, I think you just have to have a good feel for exactly how far you can push and some girls will take to it better/quicker than others. Hope it helps!
Author:  Chyna [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 11:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't text for nothing!!! Ahhhh
Quote:
So ever since I got out of a relationship my brain hasn't been working to text right. Say you get a girls #, then it's time to text her. HERE is where I screw everything up.I have no idea what to open with or what to say after that and how to keep it interesting.

If I could see perfect examples of it and at least have someone explain what I'm suppose to do I appreciate it. Like I really mess up here you have NO idea. I'll post of pics, Im not satisfied with myself.


First things first, after you get her number, text her immediately. Even better - when you're right in front of her.

Why? Because she’ll feel more comfortable about your text interaction with her the next day because you already began texting her when you were with her.

And, this will also lessen your fear about texting her the next day. It will remove all this anxiety you're feeling because when you pick up the phone the next day it'll just feel like you're continuing the conversation from the previous night.

When you do text her the next day make sure you maintain the fun vibe you created when you met. Before hitting send, take a step back and think - If I received this text, would I put everything else on hold in my day to text you back?

Be different and exciting, because if she's hot, she'll probably have other guys chasing her, so you need to stand out.

The easiest way to do this is to mention something you talked about or something fun that happened when you met. Inside jokes work well. It all depends on how long you spent with her.

If you're really stuck for something here are a couple of texts I often use to get things going again:

#1: Hey Lucy, let’s rob the big jewellery store on Oxford Street. You can be the getaway driver. We’ll drive to the Channel Tunnel, cross over to France and start a new life abroad with all our plunder. Are you in or out?

#2: “Lucy, this reminded me of you…” (INSERT PICTURE OF CAT IN BREAD).

Hope those two examples give you some ideas about how to be a little different. Girls love cats in bread and when you tell her it reminds you of her she'll want to know why.

Both these texts force a response, plus they make her WANT to text you back. You can then transition quickly to fix a date for the same day.
Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 3:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't text for nothing!!! Ahhhh
Instinct & Chyna - thanks for your responses.
Also, yes, I've read Slipknots rules, they made sense. There's just some issues I had that I couldn't find out.

I get writers block during text and am too direct.
That sort of helps chyna, but I don't want to rely on material, I want to be able to come up with stuff myself. I see guys on here sexually escalating thru text (maybe that's after they met with her) and I'm like Wow, I can barely get a response lol. I need like an ultimate guide to understand it. I end up putting my foot in my own mouth and (IMPORTANT) my answers to her reply are not DHV or interesting.

Instinct, I've been doing it for a long time but haven't progressed as much. I'm not satisfied yet.
Like, if I had some text logs of well known PUA's I'd be able to see there methods better.
Btw, I remember you having a famous post on here? Am I correct.
Author:  In$tinct [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 10:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't text for nothing!!! Ahhhh
Wow, I didn't know I'm that famous :D My relationship guide got some good feedback, and I think that it deserved the attention, but I can't really recall writing a text guide.

Anyway, if you don't get response to texts it may or may not be a text game issue. What is your frame like when you are closing these girls? Is it sexual enough? Are you taking the risks? As far as my experience goes, most flakes are results of weak frame or not escalating aggressively enough. And if the girl is into you when you're blunt like that, then you can literally text her whatever BS and she will respond.
Author:  prince_prince [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 8:39 pm ]
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Well lol....like I said the more you think about it...the more you

make excuses up. I would just go with what you feel man.
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