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| Author: | wasim90 [ Thu Dec 05, 2013 12:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | strange sticking point. might be confidence issues |
Hey guys I have a problem. Now ive been in pick up for a while now and have even landed myself a fantastic girl. I dont care about getting laid or approaching girls, cause I'm pretty happy with how everything is. Except one thing. Im fairly confident and before i met my current gf I had no problems approaching women and gaming strangers and turning them into friends/dates/whatever. However I find when I talk to someone with a perceived higher social value than me I start changing my behaiviour. Theres a couple of girls that ive met through circumstance and i dunno I just feel like i have to say something impressive or prove myself somehow. I have friends that have high value jobs people like DJs and models and dancers etc and when I'm around that group i change behavior to someone who is cool. Yet i know I'm just being silent and awkward. I'm not sure why but i even freeze up on Facebook if I do something ridiculous like comment on a post. Not sure what it is I need to work through but I need some confidence builders, something to get rid of the feeling of caring what people think about me Cheers gurus ;D |
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| Author: | mmg [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 12:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: strange sticking point. might be confidence issues |
Been there and done that. It does sound like a confidence issues. Your brain tells you "These are not average people" so you start behaving like they're not average people. If you ever listen or read an interview with a HB10 and they ask her: "What kind of guys do you like?" Somewhere along the way she will mention a "cool guy" which pretty much means a guy who maintains his Hakuna Matata attitude no matter what. You're going to have to recondition and desensitize your brain to not be threaten by "High valued people" and remain calm. Example during my boxing days... Me:"I get scared that I'm going to get punched..how do you get over it?" Boxer: "Soon you'll get punched so many times you won't even flinch" Soon you will talk to so many higher valued people...you won't even flinch Hugo Moreno http://www.thinkandattractwoman.com |
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