| PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Building Attraction Sticking Point... https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=56&t=171554 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | b4hackers [ Thu Nov 14, 2013 5:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Building Attraction Sticking Point... |
Ok, I hope this post is applicable to this sections. There is this girl in my one of my classes and basically she is my target and I walk her back to her car after every class twice a week. I always pretend to go to my car even if it's not there just so I can walk and talk to her or just check her out if I have AA or something. We really don't have much to talk about. We talk about things like how stupid some test was, or something funny what was said in class, or how stupid someone was. We so sometimes run out of things to talk about. I do need to get better about opening more (interesting) loops in a given conversation. So she is eating lunch with these other guy with these other guys and one of then obviously likes her too b/c he walks her to class after lunch. Pretty much, I do make her laugh a lot but I wouldn't necessarily call that attraction. I feel like she is more stimulated by this other guy's conversation but not attracted. I feel that she is more drawn to him as a friend. I am in college by the way. I have been talking to her for about two and a half months now and I am having trouble taking this to the next level. She really does think I'm kinda funny and entertaining but I now want to get her number and start eating lunch with her or at least eat lunch with her other guy friends and AMOG the shit out of them. I'm sure just about any of you guys could do this and I sounds so stupid and basic of me to ask, but what should be make next few steps. |
|
| Author: | afcAL [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 7:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Building Attraction Sticking Point... |
Quote: We really don't have much to talk about
Would you hang out, eat lunch or date a person who bores you to tears? In order to get attraction from a girl who gets so much attention from other guys you need to be more interesting, more charismatic than them. Get out of the house and do interesting stuff. Pick a few cool places to visit, take her with you. Find a cool place to study and let her come along. Do you want to date her just because she is hot? Find out more about her; does she meet your standards? what was she like growing up? who are her family and friends? what are they like? What kind of guys does she like? what is her "type"? When you develop a natural, genuine curiosity about the person you are with, when you want to share your stories with her, it is very hard to run out of stuff to talk about. Al |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|