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Author:  erix5son [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 1:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Being too arrogant
I come across as very arrogant often. I have problems finding difference between being arrogant and cocky/funny.
Here are two text examples with girls that I already had sex with:

1) Texting her next day after the evening of "watching game of thrones".
Me: Lets have sex only once per game of thrones episode.. :D I want to watch 3rd seasson some time.
Her: Haha, ok, "till the end" once. .. what about everything else?? :P // (we had sex with penetration once last night, but lots of oral)
Me: Haha, so you are saying it stays 5 min GoT, 2 hours of sex ratio?
Her: Something like that. Than we can restart episode and actually watch it ;)
Me: That sound familiar.. :P Lets test our discipline. Next time we watch 10 mins, without sex! :o
Her: Put crocs on and there will be no problems ;)
Me: I'm so good looking in crocs, that you wouldn't even press play ..
...

2)
Her: How's the studying going?
Me: Well, I'll probably pass.. Right now I'll make myself hot warm bath. :) Are you partying?
Her: I really want to join you in bath! ;) No, I was shopping and I'm way too tired ..
Me: (sending top less photo with my 6-packs) Look what you are missing ;) Bought anything?
...

I would be very thankful if someone analysed these two conversations, backed with some theory and why does it work that way.
What kind of reply would you expect? (I can post how conversations continued.)
Thank you for reply!
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 2:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
Actually thought this was a sticking point, but in fact it's just one big bragging post., so let me give you your validation.

YOU DA MAN!!! YOU GET SO MUCH SEX, you're amazing!!

Cos of Guys like you, girls bleed once per month for a week.

You once went to the Virgin Islands , and when you came back, it is now know as "the Islands"

You once slammed a revolving door! Good job bro
Author:  erix5son [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 2:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
I wrote that because IMO it makes a big difference when texting a girl about something sexual.
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 2:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
How is your post a sticking point?
Author:  erix5son [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 2:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
I have problem with being arrogant. And these are just 2 examples.
What topic would be more appropriate?
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
Do what you want, but you know you just want to have lil brag.

It's all good bro, we all like a good boast from time to time.

But at least be honest that it's just a boast and at least not pretend it to labelled as a sticking point or a problem.

Just make a field report bro, tell people how good your game is recently , share it with people if you must. Just stop labelling it as a hurdle.

The girls in the texts do no appear to have a problem with your 'arrogance' so how is it a problem?
Author:  erix5son [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
I honestly hoped for helpful reply.
Becouse of my arrogance and bad attitude I can hardly keep anyone in my life.
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
Then think of a real problem.
Author:  erix5son [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
How much more real can it get ?
Have you read conversations and what is your opinion about it?
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
My opinion is that the girls are into you and you still see them.

So you have just created this imaginary sticking point.

You haven't even mentioned if the girls stopped replying after that.

But if those last 2 texts of yours is what fucked it up with you, then can you simply just stop texting like that?

Just be normal and flirty.

It really is simply just STOP texting her that cocky stupid crap. Simple as that
Author:  erix5son [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
I didn't write if they replied because I didn't want that to influence answers.

Reply to 1)
Her: Hmm. That's what you think..
That was 2 days ago and I didn't reply. No idea what to do.

2) Not seeing her anymore, though that conversation ended well.


I find both of these 2 flirty, that is why I turned for help and hoped for more insight.
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
I edited my last post cos you edited.
Author:  erix5son [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
I found
Her: Put crocs on and there will be no problems ;)
kinda offensive.
Author:  Dragula [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
Quote:
I found
Her: Put crocs on and there will be no problems ;)
kinda offensive.

Really? You ACTUALLY took offense to that!!? ^^? Did you not see her winky face on the end?

You have bigger 'sticking points' than pickup my friend like being too sensitive.

Psychiatrist will help
Author:  erix5son [ Sat Oct 05, 2013 3:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Being too arrogant
Yes, I actually have those problems.
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