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Author:  zookmaster [ Mon Sep 09, 2013 8:18 am ]
Post subject:  Tired of getting numbers only to be rejected
Also tired of girls who play hard to get and sick of chasing now. I'm always getting chatted up but they see something in me whether its my anxiety issues or not I don't know. I'm a funny guy and believe in myself and often get complimented by the looks but the conversations seem quite dull when I do end up getting close to a girl withen the first 5 minutes and you can just tell they are not that interested.

I got this one the other day and she kept making so many excuses as why it wouldn't work and I txted her thinking it was worth an shot and got no reply. I guess it was a little generic but what did she give me to work with? they make no effort and expect us to chase them and it's pointless most of the time. They always seem to go with bad boy douches or rich snobby douches. I'm neither of these and I'm thinking of giving up now at 29.
Author:  didier-oke [ Mon Sep 09, 2013 3:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Tired of getting numbers only to be rejected
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Also tired of girls who play hard to get and sick of chasing now. I'm always getting chatted up but they see something in me whether its my anxiety issues or not I don't know. I'm a funny guy and believe in myself and often get complimented by the looks but the conversations seem quite dull when I do end up getting close to a girl withen the first 5 minutes and you can just tell they are not that interested.

I got this one the other day and she kept making so many excuses as why it wouldn't work and I txted her thinking it was worth an shot and got no reply. I guess it was a little generic but what did she give me to work with? they make no effort and expect us to chase them and it's pointless most of the time. They always seem to go with bad boy douches or rich snobby douches. I'm neither of these and I'm thinking of giving up now at 29.
You need to connect more with them. Try Joseph Matthews Renegade Rapport program.

Also if you feel like quitting you should try out other things.
Are you using routines? Then stop using them. If you never used them then try some out. But don't expect routines to you get you laid. They are meant for practice in my opinion.

Are you doing direct daygame yet? Try it. It will make you more honest and natural. Daygame will also help you meet girls that aren't playing hard to get.

Keep doing what works and stop doing what doesn't.

Btw; rich guys aren't getting more women. They just seem like they can take care of themselves. You don't need money for that.
And bad boys aren't getting more either. They just seem like they can handle the women but they make them unhappy. Bad boys have a little bit more alpha behavior then nice guys but they are still not nearly as attractive as an alpha male.
The alpha male takes care of himself and his women. That is attractive. Lots of women never even meet alpha males so they settle for a beta. You can be more alpha if you don't give up.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Sep 09, 2013 8:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Tired of getting numbers only to be rejected
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when I do end up getting close to a girl withen the first 5 minutes and you can just tell they are not that interested.
Well, lets start here. Why are you even bothering getting a girls phone number if you can tell that they are not interested? If the girl isn't ready to have sex with you, where you can FEEL that she is ready, don't just go for her number and dip. Stay in the interaction and get her to that point. You should be going for the pull instead of pussing out at the number...

2 rules...

1. Don't be outcome dependent.

2. Don't be a pussy.

Don't give up and be happy with a number just because you felt the interaction going sour. Burn it to the ground first. Then get her number if it makes sense.
Author:  Dragula [ Mon Sep 09, 2013 8:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Tired of getting numbers only to be rejected
I used to by like this all the time.

"Fuck this shit, why give me their number if they ain't interested"

Give up, then go out with mates and ignore girls for a while.

Interesting thing happens. I'm not outcome dependant and opportunities fell on my lap and get really optimistic about it.

Start sarging again, same thing happens, such a vicious circle.

Nowadays, I don't care about it all anymore , not treat it like a full time job and that's when things started to go well for me.

You care too much

Take a break. Chill out. Keep at it , don't give up.
Author:  zookmaster [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 3:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tired of getting numbers only to be rejected
I'm 29 and have had compliments and alot of attention but they never want more. I'm a lover and wouldn't play around if I knew a girl loved me. I've only had one real girlfriend in the last decade.

I get told I'm good looking by the girls but they act as if they don't want to get to know me. I wonder if I come across to keen at first but I notice when I hold back and be stoic(I'm stoic but switch to cocky/funny fast) they still don't really seem to want me. I open my mouth and make a few flirty jokes and be friendly and they smile but it doesn't go anywhere apart from a number close which ends up with them not answering my text. I often end up getting girls seeming keen who I have no interest in which I find quite insulting considering I get alot of attention from good looking girls but they are too stubborn to give me a chance. Why do the douches win? I do security in a cocktail bar...is it because my job isn't any good? One women said she wouldn't be able to trust me doing such a job but I believe most women want a guy with a job that is better than theirs.
Author:  Dragula [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 5:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tired of getting numbers only to be rejected
You're not lookin for advice

You are just venting
Author:  didier-oke [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 8:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tired of getting numbers only to be rejected
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I do security in a cocktail bar...is it because my job isn't any good? One women said she wouldn't be able to trust me doing such a job but I believe most women want a guy with a job that is better than theirs.
What women say they want is often quite the opposite of what get them attracted. Your job is one of the last things women judge you on. It's you ambition within that job that get them going.
Author:  dukehoopz30 [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 3:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Tired of getting numbers only to be rejected
you are not playing the game correctly. I know these metaphors are cheesy... but seriously there are steps to having a women feel attraction. this is psychological... and if you arnt pressing the right buttons you will lose... every time.

1st you have to DHV yourself.... show her/tell her you have higher value then her. Look up DHV routines

2nd you have to build a connection... she will not want to hang out with you if your just another random at the bar... i dont care how good looking or how much money you have. girls are emotional...10 times what we guys are. if you dont do these two steps you will always get flaked.

Gl
Duke
Author:  zookmaster [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 4:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tired of getting numbers only to be rejected
DHV routines usually are positive stories or bragging.

I've not lived a very exciting life and my accomplishments are quite ordinary. My main things are my humor and showing empathy. I probably run them both into the ground though.
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