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| Author: | Bryan Bond [ Tue Aug 13, 2013 12:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do you guys handle very "cold"/shy girls? |
What's up guys? My question is basically how you guys handle very shy/cold girls! I'm gonna give an example: There is a girl who is taking a class with me. She is pretty and look kinda interesting, but she is very "cold"/shy. I came across her at the gym and asked if we were taking a class together, etc, and then we had a little chat. After that, I came across her a couple times and she doesn't even look me at the eyes, so I don't even say hello, because It would be like I was fucking claiming for her attention. I've been through some situations like that a couple times, so how do you guys deal with it? |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Tue Aug 13, 2013 1:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you guys handle very "cold"/shy girls? |
Depends man, if a girl just isn't in to you she will be cold and won't acknowledge you. If she really is just shy, the trick is to be open and very friendly. Qualify her a lot, she says something about her that you like, tell her so and WHY you like it. Stay confident, if she's smiling when she's talking to you that's the sign she likes you. Shy/socially insecure people have a lot of trouble keeping eye contact, but if you are smiling and holding eye contact and she's mimicking your smile she is enjoying your company. If you are smiling and she's not, she doesn't want to talk to you. Now, should you judge that she like you (listen to your gut and don't hesitate), invite her on an instant date, lunch/coffee/whatever. While you are walking there offer your hand to hers. She takes it and she's attracted to you, she doesn't most likely she isn't and you can say "you know I think you're really cute right?" Or something, voice your interest. She will give you an answer right then. Once you get it, accept it. Should the answer be "nay" consider just keeping her as a friend, or don't. Up to you, have fun! |
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| Author: | FuckBoi [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 5:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you guys handle very "cold"/shy girls? |
She may be too shy to have a follow up conversation. If you want to talk to her again but she's not making eye contact, in a loud voice say "Hey! (name)" or just "(name)! What's up?" and start a conversation next time at the gym. Talk some more about the class you're taking together, since that's all you have in common at the moment. But also, ask questions to find out more about her for further conversation topics. Ask how she's doing in the class. If she's doing well, say "I'm totally cheating off of you next test" Then, you can start sitting next to her in class. It's a matter of you taking the lead in continuing conversations from now on, because a lot of these girls you're attracting are too shy to do so. It's probably happening with a lot of girls because you don't do it right away, the next time you see her after your first interaction. Then she starts feeling insecure and averting eyes. Step 1: Yell her name within earshot (She looks up) Step 2: Smile and make eye contact (She smiles and makes eye contact back) Step 3: Say hey, and have a chat (First about class, then about her workout) Hope that helps |
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| Author: | Bryan Bond [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 4:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you guys handle very "cold"/shy girls? |
Thank you for the answer guys! I'm totally trying this out =). And Mattr1984, I'm totally fine with her not acknowledging me, but the problem is that I didn't have any real game with her, I just basically talked to her because we're taking a class together, no big deal, so it would be 'polite' if she at least said hi. Thanks again dudes! |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 8:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you guys handle very "cold"/shy girls? |
One thing you can do is ask her certian types of questions that require longer answers. That way she can't just knod or "yes/no" you. And if you feel like she is really being hard to communicate with, then just bite the bullet and ask pushy questions like if she is single. Because she me be too shy to just tell you that she has had a boyfriend for 7 years and isn't interested in meeting other guys. |
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