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| Author: | butterfield [ Sun Feb 10, 2008 7:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Showing value and different aspects of business |
Hey guys, im newish to the game so am having trouble showing value when approaching a set. For example i dont have any ways of showing value apart from using the 1-10 test when they usually choose 7. My second issue is know the different aspects of the game in order to know what i need to improve etc. Obviously there is opening and closing, also showing value and escalating but are there any others? Thanks for the help guys. |
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| Author: | butterfield [ Sun Feb 10, 2008 9:39 pm ] |
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come on guys no one has posted me back the last 2 times |
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| Author: | Chief August [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 5:20 am ] |
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You've got most of the major components, but you should really pick up a book or something to get started. Here's a rough outline - approach in a way that doesn't seem like a pickup. Any approach that does not DLV is acceptable. Build Attraction - Demonstrate higher value with tricks, jokes, negs, etc. Build Comfort - Once she is attracted to you, she will also want to feel comfortable. If you reverse you end up in friend zone. This is the longest part - hopefully you've build attraction right up front. Build comfort by showing your feelings, spending time with her in different situations (bouncing/dating). Just be sure you don't DHV by trying to build too much comfort. Don't try too hard to impress her or buy her affection. Closing - Keep your eyes open for signals about when it is time to kiss - initiate kino from the beginning of the process helps facilitate this moment If you miss an opportnity to escalate it's a big DLV. You'll have to work your way gradually through each state, cause one fuckup usually means game over, but a good book will make the process quicker. |
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