I am a field virgin (haven't been out in the field... and a virgin in general now that i mention it!) I stared reading "the game" two nights ago... what an awesome read! Straight on to goodle... search "PUA".. this stuff is amazing haha.
What I am forseeing will happen to me when I try my first sarg is I'll confront a group, attempt an opener, and straight away, I'll freeze... lol, it sounds pathetic, but I can see it happening, I am 100% AFC, left high school a virgin, still a virgin (19yo).
To use Strauss as an example:
me: "looks like the party's over here!"
set: "haha.... "
me: "er... orite then! c ya round"
where do I go if none in the set contribute? what's the next step? Asking an open ended question to me seems a little random and a bit of a buzzkill... they are all chatting away, then suddenly a pale faced stranger comes along and asks what the occasion is....
I don't know, maybe it's just my inexperience, I am one of the hardest people to talk to... even if it's my best buddy... I am never the one making conversations, always one word answers, same with family, I am just generaly hard to talk to..
Any tips? Anyone been in the same situation? Thanks for your patcience
