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| Author: | OhDamn [ Thu Jul 04, 2013 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I am "the guy before the boyfriend" |
This is only something I've realized recently, as all of my ex hookups etc now have boyfriends. I have been the guy right before the long-term boyfriend every single god damn time and to be honest I'm sick of it. I learned the "game" to find an amazing girl I can spend some time with. I'm not really interested in fucking 5 girls at a time (although with how everything's going recently I'm starting to consider it.) My "relationships" have gradually grown in length from girl to girl, but the longest one I've ever had was 4 months (we were officially dating 4 months), and guess what, shes practically got a new boyfriend now, a little over a month later (I am thinking this is more a bounceback than anything though (we broke up due to "distance", it was a LDR the last 2 months), as she does seems to go out of her way to advertise it on social media through pictures, twitter etc whereas when she was with me we could never even remember to take a picture for the life of us). I kinda got off topic, but my point still stands. I'm stumped. What the hell is going wrong??? |
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| Author: | GhostMan [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 10:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am "the guy before the boyfriend" |
Not really enough information to make a personalized response, but I can take a shot in the dark. Assuming you are meeting and dating women as a result of your game, and if your game isn't actually a genuine representation of your personality and character, than you're setting yourself up for incompatible relationships. In other words - if you misrepresent yourself you will attract women that are compatible with your false persona, so when your true identity inevitably reveals itself, the relationship will end. You need to click with a girl in a more meaningful and compatible way for a successful long-term relationship to occur. Or at least for a fulfilling one. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 2:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I am "the guy before the boyfriend" |
Quote: I learned the "game" to find an amazing girl I can spend some time with.
As with the other poster's thoughts,The deceit in "GAMING" a woman sometimes, is that most women fall in love with assumed personality, but eventually discover their true character. Evolve your skills into your true character. Like a moth to a flame, if you extinguish the flame, the moth is no longer attracted. |
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