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| Author: | numbersgame [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 9:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Great Expectations (feel like im leading them on) |
i am miss managing the expectations of these girls, they always want to be my girlfriend and have a serious relationship. i understand that the issue is the frame i am setting from the beginning of the interaction. has anyone else constantly ran into this problem in the past? if so how do i rectify the problem in existing relationships? and obviously pre empt it in all future relationships? |
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| Author: | Wolfwoodd [ Tue Jun 25, 2013 4:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Great Expectations (feel like im leading them on) |
Quote: EFA – Early Frame Announcement. The strongly conveyed but unspoken overall message to a woman non-verbally conveying who you are and why you’re there. Your EFA begins on the first second of the first date and continues for at least three months before it can be softened if necessary. Examples: A nervous, talkative guy on a first date is demonstrating the EFA of an AFC. A guy constantly telling a woman she’s pretty, buying her dinner and flowers, and getting angry when she talks about other men would be the EFA of an monogamous boyfriend. A guy who acted like he didn’t care, confidently talked about sex, and had lots of pretty girls all over his Facebook page would be the EFA of an Alpha. A woman will almost always conform her behaviors and expectations to fit the EFA of a man she’s interacting with.
Further reading on the subject (the often linked RULES post by Tubarao): http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/ ... rules.htmlI'm sorry I don't have time today to post a more lengthy response. It's kind of a big topic. -Wolf |
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