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| Author: | imanewbie [ Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Failure feeling |
Well not sure I should post it here anyways I was wondering now. Im soon to be 23 yo, with a descent bachelour diploma, I got good friends, lived abroad, speak 3 languages, sportsman and so on. And stil cannot find a girl. I´ve been going out in many different places, in the sense the ones I can afford :p Point is Im up to be 23 and never had a real relationship Ive hanged out with girls but never for more than something like 3 months and most times not even weeks. Now that Im back home seems even worse to find someone since to someone used to live alone coming back to live with parents is a crap, now it is not my house anymore it is my folks house. I feel like it is not normal, all my friends, 100% of them are dating someone. I´ve got an invitation from a girl to a meet up (won´t call a date yet) this weekend if the weather cooperates. Still I´m not quite optimistic. I´ve tried to sort of "lower standards" with no luck. I really miss interest quite fast in people. Looking back in the last years I havent found a single girl which would complete my basic expectation looks at least 7, some brains ( ultimate killer). Point is here is always a but, like this girl I´m suposed to meet, she found me in Orkut throght some common friends. And well, I don´t really like to find dates online. Some other constraints which lead me to this point: changed school at 16 yo, what ultimately sucked, 2 years stuck in a group of morons Im glad I no longer see. My judo team dissolved in these times too when I was 18, so I was stuck without class mates and sports mates. Also most of my friends are quite older than me, so untill not so long I couldnt even go out in some places with them, Ive lived 1 year abroad, and the year I took examinations to join university I was dead to the world.(Fortunatelly it paid back:D) heh just remmembered last girl I dated had sort of a chin I didnt like :p Well my point is how worried should I be about the current situation? |
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| Author: | travis8907 [ Fri Feb 08, 2008 8:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | well..... |
im not going to lie, it really sounds like you need to get your inner game in check before you can work others. if your not happy with your own life how do expect to make others happy? the key is yes your trying to find girls, but is that your whole life? man just go out and have a good time. the biggest thing is take advntage of every OPPORTUNITY. if you go pick something up from the mall and you see a cute chick. you have to go talk to her. because you miss 100% of the shots you dont take ( hobbit) practicing is the only way to succeed as well if you need any help PM me Travis. |
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| Author: | imanewbie [ Fri Feb 08, 2008 4:11 pm ] |
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Well I could PM but I shall make it open so more people can contribute, point is, I managed to play the game in the sense, I can ignore the AA and consequences since it is just a game of odds for me, like playing black jack, on the long term play I shall have profit, but what botters me is not that im not beeing able to approach. but that after the approach I see that the girl is far less than what I would expect :/ |
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