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| Author: | Party Poison [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 9:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Keeping them interested Anyone want to help? |
I can easily open and give an interesting feeling to a girl. Only problem is, carrying onto day 2 or just another time to hang out i lack in keeping her interested. Can anyone give some possibilities to actions or push and pulls that can keep her interested |
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| Author: | Alsagei [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 9:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping them interested Anyone want to help? |
In the 2nd date all you gotta do is build comfort, because she's already attracted to you, you can tell she's just because she went to the date itself. She wouldn't go with a guy she doesn't likes. So after attraction, comes comfort, she won't want to build comfort with you if she's isn't attracted, so you gotta build comfort after attraction, thus before seduction, and how you build it? Well, finding commonalities, going to some vulnerability conversations, building trust, doing Kino Escalation, playing some Routines such as The Cube, The Strawberry Fields, Thumb-War, etc. So she will feel like if you know her better, also you gotta try to bounce to different venues so her brain will save the "Moments spended" but not the time itself, because even though the brain it's a complex and almost perfect-working machine, it doesn't understands the concept of the time very well, it saves the information like in a mini-photo album. Bounce with her, so when she reminds of you she'll have all this images in different places, which will create the effect on her brain like if you know more time ago, it's like tricking the brain. Ultimately, you gotta go for the kiss at some point of comfort building, because if not, you're gonna become her girlfriend, make her know that you're sexually active for her, and after comfort, can finally go to seduction. |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 11:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping them interested Anyone want to help? |
This will be hard for you to understand at this point but as you do this more often it will make more sense to you. You keep her interested by keeping yourself interested. And you keep yourself interested by doing exactly what you want, when you want, how you want. When you're focused on the girl your mind is thinking how "not to lose the girl" meaning you're playing not to lose. You will always feel tense and will feel the need to uphold the conversation/interaction. When you try to keep yourself interested, your playing to win. When a girl sees a guy who does what he wants when he wants she will feel the need to "hold your attention". And you will feel no pressure trying "not to lose the girl" so your actions will be more focused and on point. |
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| Author: | Party Poison [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 5:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping them interested Anyone want to help? |
Thanks guys. I will consider and use all of this next girl I come in contact with |
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