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| Author: | Athylus [ Thu May 30, 2013 6:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I just don't get DHV |
Hey everyone. Approaching is no problem for me, it's mid-game. I can open (I only game in clubs/bars) and that's just not too hard for me. I throw a neg sometimes, no problem but I never use a DHV. I just have no idea how and can't come up with my own. Can anyone help me with this? I just don't quite grasp it. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu May 30, 2013 7:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I just don't get DHV |
Quote: Hey everyone. Approaching is no problem for me, it's mid-game. I can open (I only game in clubs/bars) and that's just not too hard for me. I throw a neg sometimes, no problem but I never use a DHV. I just have no idea how and can't come up with my own. Can anyone help me with this? I just don't quite grasp it.
Social Intuition- A man who is completely aware of his surroundings. Someone who has no problem adapting to his current environment and has the ability to navigate his way through the crowd to align with others who are also of high value. He is the man who is the most socially connected. (Know people where ever you are at. Become a familiar face at certain venues.) This is also the man who is completely in control of his emotions regardless of what others say to him or do to interrupt his current mindset. He is friendly and ready to have a good time. But do not fuck with him. Adapt or die.Confidence- Confidence is sexually attractive to women. Be the center of your own world. Confidence is a state of mind. It is caused by a series of chemical reactions in your brain to create a particular feeling. Women want someone who has the feeling of confidence all the time. He does not care what others think about him. (Consciously base your self esteem on factors other than women’s approval.) In order to SHOW that you are confident, be relaxed. Don’t look tense or tough. Be friendly. Someone who is confident is not afraid of others hurting him physically or emotionally. Act as if you own the place. Don’t brag. Bragging implies lack of confidence and insecurity. Be a risk taker. Don’t be afraid of problems that may arise from the outcome of your actions until you actually have a problem. Simply know how to overcome the problem. Your natural confidence levels will rise once your actions are congruent. Humor- This is where playful, cocky, funny will come into play. Be energetic. Being playful and funny allows you to disguise toughness. Rambo is not playful. Smile and have fun. If you are not having fun, she is not having fun. Laughing triggers positive emotions. Most laughter is not about the content of what is being said to cause the laughter, it is about the relationship that is being built between people. The same type of humor can become annoying if used over and over again. Don’t be a clown. Health- Women look for a mate who will produce healthy offspring. You don’t have to look like Mr. America… But be fit and in shape. Not “a shape.” Be well groomed, clean, and work out. People who work out naturally give off a better energy. Keep your skin and your smile as clean as possible. Skin blemishes are an indicator of ill health. Make sure you and your clothes are clean. Always. Don’t be a scum bag. If you are balding, consider shaving your head bald. They make plenty of beauty products that say “FOR MEN,” don’t be afraid to use them. If you wear glasses, consider contacts. There is no excuse to not look your best. Pre-Selection- Women want what other women want and what they can’t have. Be seen with other women. Think and KNOW in your head that you are attractive to women and that women want you. Status- Means power and success. Women want the leader. She needs to know that you are a leader. Be the best at whatever it is you do. Act as if you are high status. Don’t act like an idiot. A high value man would not dance on tables or start fights with people. Be a resource. Don’t ever talk about lack of success. Be positive about everything you do with your life. The more a person is liked by others, the more we want to be liked by him. Be that guy that everyone wants to like them. Act as if your deck of friends is completely full. Wealth- Does not mean money. It means having ambition, goals, and having access to resources. Money means very little to women after you reach building comfort and rapport in the relationship. Even though most women can support themselves just fine (women will always find a ride home, they don’t need your money.) their emotions still desire to align with a man who can provide a better future for her offspring. Do not resent or get mad at women if they do happen to ask you for money or support. It is part of their genetics. You don’t have to look rich either… but don’t look like you are struggling. When a bum approaches you for money, you know its a bum. Be consistent. Don’t sit at a VIP table and drive a shit box. Challenging- Women love a challenge. Naturally, we appreciate things that we work harder for. Demonstrate authority over hear. Treat her like a 4th grader. Be playful and fun and guide her through things that you would like her to do. Live an exciting lifestyle. She shouldn’t be the only thing on your mind. Don’t be too easy either… have standards for yourself. We can make these traits noticed in several different ways. She observes them herself. She hears them from a friend. A neutral source (i.e. you go to a bar, talk to a manager about possibly having a party and you would like a tour of the facility. Buy the guy a beer. Now, all the sudden, you are seen with the manager at the bar, walking around as if you are someone important.) My friends. I tell her. Health, social intuition and humor are typically observed. Status and wealth can be told… just make sure you are not bragging If all of these traits are shown, and you are congruent in that role, confidence, pre-selection, and being a challenge for her will all come naturally. Everything you do in life counts. There is no one thing that is more important than the other. Hope this helps bro |
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| Author: | Athylus [ Sat Jun 01, 2013 6:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I just don't get DHV |
Thank you majikal! That's a lot of info. So basically you don't HAVE to tell a story where you DHV? It can just be the way you act and your body language, right? That's what I got out of it. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sat Jun 01, 2013 7:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I just don't get DHV |
Quote: Thank you majikal! That's a lot of info. So basically you don't HAVE to tell a story where you DHV? It can just be the way you act and your body language, right? That's what I got out of it.
Exactly!Just live an exciting lifestyle and have fun stories to tell... basically live an interesting life that women will want to be a part of. It's really more important that you don't LOWER your value when you are talking. Don't talk about anything gross or creepy or weird. Don't be negative about ANYTHING. Train your brain to not even think negatively. |
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