Thanks for the advice guys =]
Quote: don't ever ask a series of questions. She just told you something personal and let me guess, you said:''Oh, cool, so what's....(some random next question)'' How would you feel if you went out with your friends and said:''hey I just nailed this HB10!'' and they would say:''Oh, cool, so have you seen this new movie?''
Ask a question and then connect. Better yet instead of asking questions just guess. It's more fun and casual and you almost always get a laugh. I always make a funny guess or something. After that you can easily neg, challenge her, kino escalate,...
Great tips - I'll try to reduce the number of questions and instead guess the answers with something funny or make assumptions about her. Make my conversations more witty and spontaneous, like the ones I'd have with friends, whilst obviously trying to include things that show I'm attracted to her here and there so she doesn't friend-zone me straightaway.
Quote: Conversational styles generate comfort rather than sexual attraction. Meanwhile, the most effective push-pull techniques are nonverbal routines. Since your question pertains to conversational style, let me introduce you to wide rapport techniques. If you're sarging girls in the 18-21 age range, then this works best on them.
Wide Rapport Techniques Basics
- 1. Observe your surroundings and identify 5 topics of interest.
2. State a topic (not ask questions; state) and when the girl reacts, drill the topic down to just 1 layer.
- Example:
You: That guy uses Head and Shoulders shampoo. I can tell from the look of his hair.
Girl: Huh?
You: I use Head and Shoulders on my cat when I give her showers.
Girl: Haha.
You: I can tell by the look of your hair that you use Dove shampoo.
Girl: Why do you think so?
You: Secret. And I won't give any clues.
[Move to the next topic. Let her pester you for the 'secret' for a couple of minutes. It's a kino bait. Tell her you have a pet parrot with a big German cut helmet and you use Dove shampoo on his kinky feathers. If you can make her giggle, she'll give you the kino--this is a good sign that you can already kino escalate with her.]
3. Move to the next topic until you have done all 5 topics.
4. Go back to the first topic and continue.
5. Eject at the highest point of the interaction before the girl gets bored. Just give her a free sample that you're a fun guy so you can isolate her later. This is also a push-pull technique in the emotional sense.
Basic Sexual Attraction or Arousal Techniques
- 1. Learn the Eye Fuck.
2. Pump up your testosterone naturally. No injections please.
3. Improve your inner game. A good inner game will show in your body language without thinking what to do.
4. Learn some monster cocking techniques. Hint: peacocking items should highlight your cock.
5. Get her used to your sexual innuendos.
I'll also try the ''Eye Fuck'' lol, I tend to just look away as soon as I get eye contact. I suppose the challenge here is to have the right expression on your face so you don't seem like a stalker or just look nervous.
From what I've gathered from reading, watching videos, etc., the strategies for day and night game can be very different. Also within day and night game, depending on the context, you have to adapt your style of interaction, techniques, speed of escalation, and where the escalation should stop to get the best possible result. So this is also a challenge that I guess you learn to overcome from experience. But many of the concepts seem to be applicable to all situations, like kino, push-pull, laughter, IOIs, and especially showing confidence.
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