This is my new sticking point. I've been learning game and I've been greatly improving when I'm at bars. My approaching is better, my qualifying is better, my kino is good, but now I have hit another sticking point.

Once I've gotten the N-close after a great interaction with an HB, I have a lot of trouble getting them out on a day 2. I feel like all the great rapport we had at the bar amounted to nothing. Sure I got the number, but wtf does that matter? I want the real goal of an F-Close and/or Relationship.

After getting her number, wtf can you do to get the flaky, cowardly girl out on a date? It seems like all girls are way too shy or lack the confidence/courage to engage in meeting someone new on their own. Its like I have to goad them out of a dark cave they've been living in very gently and meticulously.

Are you calling or texting to ask them out?

Don't do the typical "date" thing. It interrupts her emotional train of though because she logically starts to realize that she is on a path to sleeping with some guy she just met. Just do "hang outs" by inviting her out to do random shit with you.

I try to invite the girl to do odd ball things. Like go kart or shop at the mall etc. I don't ask them to dinner or drinks really. I try to mix it up like that. I usually do this over text.

I should be calling them more? I feel like girls never answer the phone, especially to someone they don't know.