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| Author: | mefuzar [ Sun May 12, 2013 1:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | how to respond to offensive comments |
Hi All, I'm new to this forum so I hope I post in the correct place, if not, I'm sorry! I've recently lost some weight so my self esteem starting to improve. Yesterday, during shaving, I got myself a french beard. Today, a colleague of mine (female) saw me with the new beard (she got into our office and talked with everyone). When she saw me, First she said: "What is this beard???" (rolling her eyes..) And I ignored her comment, and continued the conversation regulary and then she said: "I can't even look at you with that beard", and she didn't make any eye contact. My question to you.. How should one respond to such offensive comments? Should I respond by action or maybe literally? Should I consider her comment seriously because she is a girl and she knows about aesthetics more than me.. and listening to her may improve my chances with other girls? I'll be happy to hear what would you do in a similiar situation? Thank you in advance, Mefuzar |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sun May 12, 2013 9:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to respond to offensive comments |
Quote: Hi All,
Fuck all that. I'm new to this forum so I hope I post in the correct place, if not, I'm sorry! I've recently lost some weight so my self esteem starting to improve. Yesterday, during shaving, I got myself a french beard. Today, a colleague of mine (female) saw me with the new beard (she got into our office and talked with everyone). When she saw me, First she said: "What is this beard???" (rolling her eyes..) And I ignored her comment, and continued the conversation regulary and then she said: "I can't even look at you with that beard", and she didn't make any eye contact. My question to you.. How should one respond to such offensive comments? Should I respond by action or maybe literally? Should I consider her comment seriously because she is a girl and she knows about aesthetics more than me.. and listening to her may improve my chances with other girls? I'll be happy to hear what would you do in a similiar situation? Thank you in advance, Mefuzar People will try and bust your balls all of the time to check your inner strength. If someone says something about your beard, you can say something back like "Yeah, chicks dig it." or in her case where she said she couldn't even look at you... just say "Whatever" Stop seeking validation from other people. Don't base yourself esteem on compliments from other people. |
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| Author: | Pie Man [ Mon May 13, 2013 1:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to respond to offensive comments |
Quote: Hi All,
Hey brutha, this isnt an answer to your question, but i think this info will help! I had a similar situation where i grew my hair out and a big goatee and the girls at work yous to hassle me to cut it off saying stuff like 'u wont get women looking like that' anyways i eventually cut it off at my own will and straight away i was complemented plenty by the women from work and other girls, on how much better i looked. I'm new to this forum so I hope I post in the correct place, if not, I'm sorry! I've recently lost some weight so my self esteem starting to improve. Yesterday, during shaving, I got myself a french beard. Today, a colleague of mine (female) saw me with the new beard (she got into our office and talked with everyone). When she saw me, First she said: "What is this beard???" (rolling her eyes..) And I ignored her comment, and continued the conversation regulary and then she said: "I can't even look at you with that beard", and she didn't make any eye contact. My question to you.. How should one respond to such offensive comments? Should I respond by action or maybe literally? Should I consider her comment seriously because she is a girl and she knows about aesthetics more than me.. and listening to her may improve my chances with other girls? I'll be happy to hear what would you do in a similiar situation? Thank you in advance, Mefuzar Did any of them sleep with or show any sexually interest in me now that i looked more civil and neat, i hear u say? The answer is NO THEY DIDNT! The point of what im trying to tell you is that your physical looks are not as important as u may think, id say there worth about 30% out of 100% in attracting women. Ive been told multiple times that im a very attractive guy, but im socially and verbally retarded when it comes to seducing women so i dont get many, do you see? Hope this story helps you out mate, Pie Man ! |
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