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| Author: | Zenki [ Sat May 11, 2013 6:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why I can't Escalate kino? |
Why does it always happen to me? I feel like Im doing everything right except for the kino part, which stops me from getting further... Yesterday I gone out to a club with friends and met so girls, all of my friends danced with them and some even f*c, but only I couldn't escalate, we talked a little but it all blown because I couldn't touch any of them. Every time when I meet someone I feel like I stuck right there.... I read some tips when to touch and how but I just couldn't do it right nor do it at all and if I do it all feels clumsy and weird..... Help please! |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sat May 11, 2013 10:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why I can't Escalate kino? |
Quote: Why does it always happen to me?
Start being a more touchy person in general.I feel like Im doing everything right except for the kino part, which stops me from getting further... Yesterday I gone out to a club with friends and met so girls, all of my friends danced with them and some even f*c, but only I couldn't escalate, we talked a little but it all blown because I couldn't touch any of them. Every time when I meet someone I feel like I stuck right there.... I read some tips when to touch and how but I just couldn't do it right nor do it at all and if I do it all feels clumsy and weird..... Help please! Stand with your feet in and your body out so when you go to move your torso, the movement will seem more natural instead of you having to take a step or too in to touch... Don't EVER lean in, pull her towards you when you touch but don't use a pulling motion. Lightly push instead. Don't look where you are touching and don't touch for to long at first. It is like horse training... Once you start to feel any resistance, push off and then re initiate. It is all about gauging her comfort levels. Know when to pull away instead of continuing to force the escalation. It will keep her comfortable and make you seem more socially savvy. |
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| Author: | confidencemagnet [ Mon May 20, 2013 2:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why I can't Escalate kino? |
You are thinking too much. You are thinking, "Should I touch her now?", "If I touch her, will she pull away?". My suggestion is touch throughout the conversation without being creepy. When you meet, give her a handshake (1st touch). When you are talking to her and it's really noisy, pull her head towards you and talk in her ear (touch 2). When you talk on some "let me get to know a little about you" touch her on her shoulder, arm, or hand (touch 3). If you're at a club and a slow song is playing pull her on the dance floor You: Come on... let's dance. Her: Okay lead her on the dance floor (touch 4) While you're dancing with her, you're touching her the whole time. As part of dancing,you want to have your hands around her waist Before you leave, invite her to your place. If she says she can't, get her number and give her a hug at the end. You want to feel comfort touching and taking it the next level (the bedroom). Your goal is comfort. touching and escalating, not necessarily getting the girl (of course you want success, but you want to build confidence before success). Do this without thinking about it. Just let it flow. |
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| Author: | chucks [ Mon May 27, 2013 11:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why I can't Escalate kino? |
I realized I had totally lost any sense of kino after I broke up with my gf and had to get it back from scratch. Practice putting your hand on the closest shoulder of a chick within 5 seconds of meeting her and hold for about 1-10 seconds. No chick's going to freak out unless your hand is covered in acid. A chick will probably say something in the first minute that's either a personal success or something she likes that you also like. You can then go for a high five. No one turns down a high five. Try to escalate from there into other touches, using your environment for excuses. If it's loud you can put your arm around a chick like you're trying to lean in and listen. If you're drunk or plausibly drunk you can steady yourself on her. If she's got any jewelry on you can admire it while touching her ears, wrist, neck etc. |
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