I used to sell newspapers. And before I sold newspapers I would have never been able to approach a set with such ease but after opening sets of hb's and talking every single one of them into buying a newspaper that they didn't even want, approaching without a stack of papers was just a small step. If you have trouble reciting material, you may need to simply calibrate yourself towards communicating with strangers. Find a political or simply important issue (like ron paul
) that you care about, print out some fliers and just pass them out to ANYBODY. Even if you run into the scariest AMOG wearing a damn hockey mask covered in blood, approach him and give him a flier. I've sold papers to people far scarier than a young beautiful woman and doing this helped my game even before I knew about the community.Another problem you may have, may not even be your problem. I find a lot of popular openers to be uncomfortably incongruent with my personality or just rather dishonest, which could cause some unnecessary anxiety when reciting them. Instead of asking some bullshit opinion opener, just say, "Hey, you guy's look fun. Am I right?"
Don't think about seducing the women, don't even think about the fact that they are women, just converse and have fun. Once you begin feeling comfortable in set, start escalating kino from open to close and you'll see your game take flight.
Good luck out there!