so im at school in the library talking with this hottie for about 45 min non stop. things are going great. then out of nowhere, about 5 of her guy friends show up, sit down at our table, and start talking amongst one another.

initially, i was un-phased, greeting them and throwing a few jokes around but as time progressed and more inside jokes and stories were introduced, i noticed myself naturally becoming more and more distant from the group and the good connection i had built with this chick. i tried to stay social but i had nothing in common with these guys.

they werent amoging or trying to push me out either, they were just chill dudes being themselves... they brought a whole new vibe that i couldnt get into, and i could see her interest shift towards them.

this isnt the first time a situation like this has happened to me where im having a good conversation with someone where im building rapport and someone new comes along that disrupts the vibe.

what should have i done so this doesnt happen again?