PUA Forum :: Oneitis sticking point

Yeah I got to get this one out of the house first.

Met this girl at a club got her number right away. Used a false time constraint to separate for a bit and later saw her randomly on the dance floor. I just called out her name and she walked up to me and I just put my hands on her hip then BAM I was grindin.

Then idk what happened but we split apart for some reason.

At the end of the night I txt her

me-"Jus saying gnite to the MVP dancer of the night"
her-" haha sleep tight. We should hang out sometime

"

next day

me-"You need to tell me the back story on that tattoo you have next time"
her-"haha the tat on my leg?"
me"Yeaaah thats the only one I saw. Sounds like Iyou have more hidden ones

"
her "haha I do I do do u have fb?"

*adds me on fb

me-"Nice haha you work with animals? thats adorable"
her- "hahaha, yea. Animal lover~"

next day

me- "Hopefully you take good care of men just as you do with your furry little friends hehe"

Silence to the max.....

Did I push it too far with that? I always heard the saying you got to take risks if you are going to get the girl so I always try to push the pace.

Can someone critique?

Thanks lots guys the previous was my first post but Ive been stealthin it and reading for a few months.

Have more women around you and talk to more women they said it'll be easy they said.

That's not the advice, the advice is to FUCK other women.

With respect to your club promoter, meet her when she's not working (at that club or not, doesn't matter). If she's not willing to do that then she's probably not interested.

Why not use the ability to be put on the guestlist to take friends or date's with you? If the promoter see's you with a date then she will get jealous, if she see's you with a date and doesn't care then you know it was just for business. Being able to be put on a guestlist is great for social proof, use it to your advantage.

Fuck I just brought back a small gift from overseas too ( I know a little AFC, but I figured I can at least get her out of the house to come pick it up and it will get me a foot in the door)..

Author:	Kazmataz87 [ Tue Mar 19, 2013 3:20 pm ]
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Hey guys I need the community's advice. So a little about myself. I think I'm at an intermediate level when it comes to seduction, maybe slightly towards the beginner side. I usually open multiple girls (~10) when I go out and come home with a few numbers from HB7/8/9 range. My problem is oneits. I get too fixated on one of the girls. I read threads all the time to cure oneitis. Have more women around you and talk to more women they said it'll be easy they said. My issue is that there will ALWAYS be the hottest one or the most attractive one. I end up not putting as much effort in the other ones and caring too much if the best one is answering my texts/ or does she like me back and things like that. How would you guys get through this one?

Author:	skittlepimp [ Tue Mar 19, 2013 6:47 pm ]
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try letting your target see you paying more attention to the other girls and throw in some light negs, and cocky/funny when she acknowledges you. humor has always been my friend good luck skittle

Author:	Kazmataz87 [ Tue Mar 19, 2013 10:37 pm ]
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Yeah I got to get this one out of the house first. Met this girl at a club got her number right away. Used a false time constraint to separate for a bit and later saw her randomly on the dance floor. I just called out her name and she walked up to me and I just put my hands on her hip then BAM I was grindin. Then idk what happened but we split apart for some reason. At the end of the night I txt her me-"Jus saying gnite to the MVP dancer of the night" her-" haha sleep tight. We should hang out sometime " next day me-"You need to tell me the back story on that tattoo you have next time" her-"haha the tat on my leg?" me"Yeaaah thats the only one I saw. Sounds like Iyou have more hidden ones " her "haha I do I do do u have fb?" *adds me on fb me-"Nice haha you work with animals? thats adorable" her- "hahaha, yea. Animal lover~" next day me- "Hopefully you take good care of men just as you do with your furry little friends hehe" Silence to the max..... Did I push it too far with that? I always heard the saying you got to take risks if you are going to get the girl so I always try to push the pace. Can someone critique? Thanks lots guys the previous was my first post but Ive been stealthin it and reading for a few months.

Author:	KINGMVRCK [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 12:36 pm ]
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Quote: Yeah I got to get this one out of the house first. Met this girl at a club got her number right away. Used a false time constraint to separate for a bit and later saw her randomly on the dance floor. I just called out her name and she walked up to me and I just put my hands on her hip then BAM I was grindin. Then idk what happened but we split apart for some reason. At the end of the night I txt her me-"Jus saying gnite to the MVP dancer of the night" her-" haha sleep tight. We should hang out sometime " next day me-"You need to tell me the back story on that tattoo you have next time" her-"haha the tat on my leg?" me"Yeaaah thats the only one I saw. Sounds like Iyou have more hidden ones " her "haha I do I do do u have fb?" *adds me on fb me-"Nice haha you work with animals? thats adorable" her- "hahaha, yea. Animal lover~" next day me- "Hopefully you take good care of men just as you do with your furry little friends hehe" Silence to the max..... Did I push it too far with that? I always heard the saying you got to take risks if you are going to get the girl so I always try to push the pace. Can someone critique? Thanks lots guys the previous was my first post but Ive been stealthin it and reading for a few months. i think your doing fine just dont text her everyday. you cant seem to interisted or else she think she has you already. just slow down th etxt and youll be fine

Author:	Kazmataz87 [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 5:26 pm ]
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@KINGMVRCK- thanks mang always good to get confirmation. Turns out this girl is a club promoter! pissed about that. now I have no clue if shes into me or just using me for my business/loyalty. she replied 2 days later (on a Wednsday. I think because Friday is coming around) with "I'll take care of you if you come out to club in LA Friday. I'll put you on the GL" me-"You are a promoter? Sneaky! maybe I have a dinner with a freind" her-"haha there are many things you dont know about me! haha jk Hopefully I can see you on Friday. " me- "k I will let you know. I'm sure it wont be hard to spot your sparkling eyes" her- "We'll see~" I left it at that. What are youre experiences with chick club promoters? Its not like they dont need dick all of the sudden, and I met a few of them last weekend and not all were receptive as she is (if anything they were bitches cuz they thought they were hot shit).

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Author:	User13247 [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 7:02 pm ]
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Quote: Have more women around you and talk to more women they said it'll be easy they said. That's not the advice, the advice is to FUCK other women. With respect to your club promoter, meet her when she's not working (at that club or not, doesn't matter). If she's not willing to do that then she's probably not interested.

Author:	Kazmataz87 [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 8:31 pm ]
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Quote: That's not the advice, the advice is to FUCK other women. With respect to your club promoter, meet her when she's not working (at that club or not, doesn't matter). If she's not willing to do that then she's probably not interested. Damn your post was so concise and it made total sense. I'm worried about the hottest one because Im not tapping all my leads and I want to fuck the best out of the selection I have. If I am tapping multiple of the leads, then I'm not so worried about the hottest one because hey I'm still getting laid by the decent ones and the hot one would be the cherry on top. Makes a lot of sense. Now getting there lol may take some time to attain that level of skills. Like I said I'm half way from a beginner to intermediate haha.

Author:	Mortalghost04 [ Thu Mar 28, 2013 4:35 pm ]
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To comment on a different part of your game: I think if you would have text her a couple days later (with no contact in between other than the night text) about the tattoo, it was a perfect setup for a date. She could tell you all about her tats while you were together. Just a sidebar! Good luck

Author:	Finesse! [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 11:11 pm ]
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Why not use the ability to be put on the guestlist to take friends or date's with you? If the promoter see's you with a date then she will get jealous, if she see's you with a date and doesn't care then you know it was just for business. Being able to be put on a guestlist is great for social proof, use it to your advantage.

Author:	Mortalghost04 [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 11:20 pm ]
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Quote: Why not use the ability to be put on the guestlist to take friends or date's with you? If the promoter see's you with a date then she will get jealous, if she see's you with a date and doesn't care then you know it was just for business. Being able to be put on a guestlist is great for social proof, use it to your advantage. +1

Author:	Kazmataz87 [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 9:15 pm ]
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I think I need to move on from this bitch. She replies right away on thurs/fri/sat Probably because thats when the events are. But when I try to hit her up on Mon or tues it usualy takes a while for her to respond. Fuck I just brought back a small gift from overseas too ( I know a little AFC, but I figured I can at least get her out of the house to come pick it up and it will get me a foot in the door). Oh well my ex ( this one is the best fuck I've ever had) is coming from abroad and she wants to play. I may hit this promoter up and show her the level that I work at.

Author:	Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 10:17 pm ]
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Quote: Fuck I just brought back a small gift from overseas too ( I know a little AFC, but I figured I can at least get her out of the house to come pick it up and it will get me a foot in the door).. Never give anything to a girl you haven't fucked. Instant friend zone.

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