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Author:  Vuurvogel [ Tue Mar 05, 2013 9:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Reacting to girls touching/ flirting you: how to ?

I really have no clue how to react in a proper way to a girl touching me (no i'm not a virgin haha)


Here's a snippet from my last FR :
We went to another bar, where I saw this hb7.5 who was in a group of 4 girls, and they were being approached by another group of guys. I noticed that this hb7.5 really didn't like being approached by this certain guy, he was being really loud to her and touching her on the back, kinda trying to kiss her, I guess drunk. We went a little closer and were both thinking of approaching one of the girls, when suddenly one of the guys of the approaching group, talks to my wing and says 'hey man, we are winging here, go somewhere else', since they were 6 guys, we had no choice but to leave.

A few hours later we enter a bar, and I see the same girls standing there (only 2 this time), I open up to one of them (kinda too loud to talk to both) saying 'were those guys a bit too much for you? ', apparantly I opened to the wrong one as she wasnt approached in that bar by anyone and she tells me 'I think u mean my girlfriend here'. So I talk to the one who I saw being 'harrassed', and again open with 'those guys were a bit too much for you, right?, I mean WHEN YOU'RE SCREAMING LIKE THIS, and hanging over as close to you as this' while hanging a bit closer to her. She was like 'haha, yeah was that something'. I say 'I mean come on that's not how you treat a girl..' This is when she grabbed me and reenacted the behaviour the guy did on her (kinda sensitive touch i would say), but this time on me, she put her hands on my back and came right next to my face (next to, not in front, just to speak in my ear, it was kinda loud over there) and said something like 'yea, he was acting like this, really close and was kinda trying to kiss me.

This is were i really don't know ho to react to this ?!


ONLY FOR THOSE INTERESTED, how i ended and fucked up-----------------------

I laughed and listened to her, while she tells me about how awful that guy was, I didn't really know what to talk about, so tried a cold read and said 'so you guys study together?' I realise the other girl somehow doesn't like me and is always drawing away attention from us (should have probably tried to enage her in the conversation, but that's hard when it's a loud place, tips?). It's hard to get her on my side, when she kinda didn't like me from the beginning, no idea why :s
Anyways she tells me yeah im studying here bla bla.. The conversation somehow gets off and the girls look around, I also look, and, see a woman dancing really ridiculous, and say 'come on, this how you dance here' and also start dancing ridiculous.
The girls dont really react, they just kinda dance a bit more energetic. I notice I have nothing left to say, I tell the girl that i have to leave cause i'm going to another bar where other friends are. I tell her it'd be nice to see u again, can I get your number?'. This is when she tells me, 'oh,.. i have a boyfriend'. This one i'm not sure if she actually has a boyfriend.. probably my game lacked.

Author:  CountRedRover [ Wed Mar 06, 2013 10:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Reacting to girls touching/ flirting you: how to ?

I noticed that this hb7.5 really didn't like being approached by this certain guy, he was being really loud to her and touching her on the back, kinda trying to kiss her, I guess drunk.
Quote:
take her by the hand and say "hey im back. sorry man this is my girlfriend"
'hey man, we are winging here, go somewhere else'
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change their perspective: we're here for the wake for allisons funeral...
"yea, he was acting like this, really close and was kinda trying to kiss me."
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you know what you should of done if that was me? (kiss her)

Author:  Vuurvogel [ Wed Mar 06, 2013 12:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reacting to girls touching/ flirting you: how to ?

Finally somebody answering and helpin me out here, i was beginning to think the pua community was dying..

Thanks bro!

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