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start touching her from the minute you open. Touch shoulders, touch hands, arms, but don't get creepy on her. Touching is key to sexual escalation. It cracks me up when guys think they can go the whole night without touching a girl yet don't understand why she wants nothing to do with him. Understanding her body language is the most important thing to pay attention too. Personally, I try and not talk TOO seductive until she is on my couch and escalate more physically. The key is to create the tension but also take it away. Don't move too fast but don't move to slow

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How exactly do you kino right from the start? I'm having trouble as to how to physically touch a complete and total stranger. Normally, I don't do anything whatsoever (wtf), but if you kino right from the get-go, how exactly should you do it without coming off as some creep? Do you give a hug? A high five? Could you massage the shoulders? Poke her?

LOL!!! Yeah you don't want to creep her out...

Have you ever watched a horse trainer? They start out very light and take their hand away once they start to feel the horse react... Same concept

Start with shoulders, elbows, hands, etc... The thing is, when you open, you want to touch the GROUP... Not just your target. Most guys are uncomfortable doing this cause it is sooo different but you just have to force yourself to be a touchy person.

Be gentle. What most guys THINK is gentle, if you actually ask a girl, its not gentle at all lol a girls skin is alot softer and more sensitive to touch than ours is. So make it light but show intent. And don't touch for too long too early. It's really reading the way she is acting and responding in the appropriate way. You will get better with experience.

Then move into hugs... Best way I have found to move into hugging a girl is to confuse things that really don't deserve a hug... Example... We start talking about video games, she says she likes Zelda... "OMG I LOVE ZELDA! GIMME A HUGGG!" and fuckin hug her, then throw her off "Okay that's enough" and watch her come right back to you...

Author:	AFC Chump [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:05 am ]
Post subject:	How to build attraction
I haven't really been good with attraction i can converse well and build rapport but that only brings girls to be close friends with me. So how do i start attraction and escalate it to the point where i should transition

Author:	Nick@how2seduce [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:27 am ]
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In short, there is obviously not enough sexual tension. You have to build it with jokes, teasing, body language... watching them, I'd even say PROVOKING them to get to those subjects and into that mood when they think about it. With just "clean" talk it's hard to get anywhere if you don't make it more sexual. If you don't know how to do it, then you first need to work on your confidence first.

Author:	AFC Chump [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:14 am ]
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ok ill definitely add more sexual tension. How about role playing should i use that also

Author:	puaninja [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:30 pm ]
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Picture a plain girl standing on the street. Very average looking. You'd normally walk by and not even notice her. Now picture her standing there talking about fucking, and how she likes to do it doggy style. You'd probably turn your head and look at her and definitely take notice as you walk by. Now picture her stopping you, and telling you about how she likes it when guys give it to her from behind. You'd probably start to take an interest in her and begin to see fuckable qualities in her that you previously over looked. Maybe you notice her slender physique, or long hair. Regardless of whether or not she tells you she's down to have sex, your attraction to her will be increased if she is talking to you about sex. Now apply this in reverse. To the woman, you are just an average Joe, nothing remarkable. There's no attraction there at first. But once you start giving her attention, she'll begin to focus on you. When you start talking about sexual things, she starts thinking about you, her, and sex. Eventually she'll start thinking about you fucking her, and what it would be like to have sex with you. This will either put her off, or she'll be intrigued by it. Generally if she is not interested, she'll let you know right away and tell you to piss off. If she finds herself intrigued, you'll start getting more and more ioi's the more that you engage in sexual discourse.

Author:	PUABeast [ Sun Feb 24, 2013 2:42 am ]
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Show your intentions from the beginning. Break rapport with them. Don't build too much comfort or else they are just friends break comfort by letting them know you fancy them. A simple you're sexy could do this kinoing is also a must. Poking works and hugs.

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Author:	andyredsox [ Tue Mar 05, 2013 8:40 pm ]
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Show her the sensitive side of yours. Let her feel that you really up to her. Be true to yourself; show them what you really are. There is nothing to lose in trying, at least you try. Right?

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Thu Mar 07, 2013 8:28 pm ]
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You've gotta start being more playful. I treat girls like they are fucking 4th graders. "Okay now do this, good girl" ... start touching her from the minute you open. Touch shoulders, touch hands, arms, but don't get creepy on her. Touching is key to sexual escalation. It cracks me up when guys think they can go the whole night without touching a girl yet don't understand why she wants nothing to do with him. Understanding her body language is the most important thing to pay attention too. Personally, I try and not talk TOO seductive until she is on my couch and escalate more physically. The key is to create the tension but also take it away. Don't move too fast but don't move to slow Meaning if you go to hold her hand and you notice she is starting to let her grip slip away from yours or she is just not "feeling it" then throw her hand away from you. She will feel the rejection and be more comfortable touching you versus not touching you. In turn, come back for more. Do this instead of you holding her hand captive like she is some sort of slave to you. Let them chase you and stop worrying about being so fuckin friendly. Being nice wont make people like you. Being that bad ass, cool guy who is not sorry for his own existence will make you remembered. Let your ego go and stop giving a fuck what other people think.

Author:	nrjose27 [ Fri Mar 08, 2013 5:31 pm ]
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Quote: start touching her from the minute you open. Touch shoulders, touch hands, arms, but don't get creepy on her. Touching is key to sexual escalation. It cracks me up when guys think they can go the whole night without touching a girl yet don't understand why she wants nothing to do with him. Understanding her body language is the most important thing to pay attention too. Personally, I try and not talk TOO seductive until she is on my couch and escalate more physically. The key is to create the tension but also take it away. Don't move too fast but don't move to slow How exactly do you kino right from the start? I'm having trouble as to how to physically touch a complete and total stranger. Normally, I don't do anything whatsoever (wtf), but if you kino right from the get-go, how exactly should you do it without coming off as some creep? Do you give a hug? A high five? Could you massage the shoulders? Poke her?

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Fri Mar 08, 2013 7:47 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: start touching her from the minute you open. Touch shoulders, touch hands, arms, but don't get creepy on her. Touching is key to sexual escalation. It cracks me up when guys think they can go the whole night without touching a girl yet don't understand why she wants nothing to do with him. Understanding her body language is the most important thing to pay attention too. Personally, I try and not talk TOO seductive until she is on my couch and escalate more physically. The key is to create the tension but also take it away. Don't move too fast but don't move to slow How exactly do you kino right from the start? I'm having trouble as to how to physically touch a complete and total stranger. Normally, I don't do anything whatsoever (wtf), but if you kino right from the get-go, how exactly should you do it without coming off as some creep? Do you give a hug? A high five? Could you massage the shoulders? Poke her? LOL!!! Yeah you don't want to creep her out... Have you ever watched a horse trainer? They start out very light and take their hand away once they start to feel the horse react... Same concept Start with shoulders, elbows, hands, etc... The thing is, when you open, you want to touch the GROUP... Not just your target. Most guys are uncomfortable doing this cause it is sooo different but you just have to force yourself to be a touchy person. Be gentle. What most guys THINK is gentle, if you actually ask a girl, its not gentle at all lol a girls skin is alot softer and more sensitive to touch than ours is. So make it light but show intent. And don't touch for too long too early. It's really reading the way she is acting and responding in the appropriate way. You will get better with experience. Then move into hugs... Best way I have found to move into hugging a girl is to confuse things that really don't deserve a hug... Example... We start talking about video games, she says she likes Zelda... "OMG I LOVE ZELDA! GIMME A HUGGG!" and fuckin hug her, then throw her off "Okay that's enough" and watch her come right back to you...

Author:	nrjose27 [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 7:03 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to build attraction
Quote: LOL!!! Yeah you don't want to creep her out... Have you ever watched a horse trainer? They start out very light and take their hand away once they start to feel the horse react... Same concept Start with shoulders, elbows, hands, etc... The thing is, when you open, you want to touch the GROUP... Not just your target. Most guys are uncomfortable doing this cause it is sooo different but you just have to force yourself to be a touchy person. Be gentle. What most guys THINK is gentle, if you actually ask a girl, its not gentle at all lol a girls skin is alot softer and more sensitive to touch than ours is. So make it light but show intent. And don't touch for too long too early. It's really reading the way she is acting and responding in the appropriate way. You will get better with experience. Then move into hugs... Best way I have found to move into hugging a girl is to confuse things that really don't deserve a hug... Example... We start talking about video games, she says she likes Zelda... "OMG I LOVE ZELDA! GIMME A HUGGG!" and fuckin hug her, then throw her off "Okay that's enough" and watch her come right back to you... So just to get a generalized idea on what to do, how would you open a set? I wouldn't want to copy your style; rather, I'd get the picture so that I can incorporate my own creativity. I guess that by lightly kinoing and then adding more touches already builds attraction whether you realize it or not. Naturally, I'm not rough with girls; in fact, since I more girl-friends than guy-friends, I've known for a while how girls should be touched - they're like walking fragile pieces of glass that should be handled with care. Plus, there should be some sort of leve of kino that tells us how strong it could be. For example: Pokes < Hand shakes < Hugs < Light shouler punches < Sitting on lap < Kisses.

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