i have xperienced this 6 times in a row now, the gal is perfectly fine with kissing and foreplay etc...but when it comes to sex, they keep saying, " I am not ready for this right now"...kindly help
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| Author: | swapppy [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 5:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | no to sex |
i have xperienced this 6 times in a row now, the gal is perfectly fine with kissing and foreplay etc...but when it comes to sex, they keep saying, " I am not ready for this right now"...kindly help
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 5:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: no to sex |
Quote: i have xperienced this 6 times in a row now, the gal is perfectly fine with kissing and foreplay etc...but when it comes to sex, they keep saying, " I am not ready for this right now"...kindly help
It's called LMR, you need to learn how to get past it.
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 6:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: no to sex |
There's two factors which contribute to this. LMR- last minute resistance. And ASD. Anti Slut Defense. The basic concept is that the girl chickens out at the last minute and won't have sex with you because she wants to protect herself from being used, hurt, manipulated, or viewed as a skank by her peers. Contrary to popular belief, most girls don't just fall over and kick their legs up in the air at the end of the first date. While you may have gotten past the introduction, getting to know them, and making out stages, the final stage is where you often encounter the most difficulty--having sex. This is just one more obstacle a pua must overcome. It's really no big deal. Much like a shit test, you have to not let it phase you and continue on gaming the girl as though this isn't bothering you. To be honest, a lot of times you basically end up trying to talk your way into the girls pants. This may not have an immediate effect, but it will help you to ascertain what the issues are that the girl is getting hung up on. Then you can work on trying to alleviate her concerns as you continue to touch her and escalate things physically. You may have to play it cool and wait until another day to try to have sex with her. It happens. The one thing you don't want to do is flip out and lose your cool and make her not trust you or think you are a sleazeball. |
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| Author: | fila [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 1:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: no to sex |
I get this allllll the time. Every girl I date seems to be the nice girl (ie. no sex before commitment). No matter how many dates I go on I cant get very far physically with a girl. Eventually I loose interest and stop dating here. If anyone has advice on how to close the "good girls" or for the op's post let me know 
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